re: wondering and confused...

Quoting mommy of 1, wife..and wan:“ girl won/'t talk to me.... idk lol I am the only one working and paying the bills. and he wants to bring ... [snip!] ... little slut into my house??!!?!?!?!! not cool.... I just can't stand the look on my son's face when i make my husband leave...”

Your son will be better off he is low enough to bring crazy strange women home while watching your son and having sex with themthink of the dangers he is bringing around him. Its not a good situation for either of you.

Quoting mommy of 1, wife..and wan:“ i just found this email friday night and have been debating on what to do....”

I mean no ddisresepct but you and your son deserve much better. You seem to be a lot more mature then him and are willing to work and provide for your child he is not I really hope everything gets better momma and I am sry you have to go threw all of this.

Quoting Myfirstlittleone (B.B.M):“ I mean no ddisresepct but you and your son deserve much better. You seem to be a lot more mature then ... [snip!] ... and provide for your child he is not I really hope everything gets better moma and I am sry you have to go threw all of this.”

thank you... we fight all the time, because i won't give him sex, but since i had the baby I lost my sex drive...

Quoting mommy of 1, wife..and wan:“ thank you... we fight all the time, because i won't give him sex, but since i had the baby I lost my sex drive...”

It doesnt help you get in the mood by pressuring you cause then you almost start to feel like its a bad thing and try to avoid it. Seems to me he really doesnt have much respect for you and he should you support him and he gave him the most wondeful thing a person could give a child. I am so sry hun. I had a an abusive jerk for a bf and I left him at 10 wks pregit wasnt easy doing it on my own but it was better for my son and I in the long run cause I kow he will never have to go threw that type of stuff and leaving him will make you feel better maybe not at first but in the long run cause you will be able to come home and want to be there as well as not have to stress yourself out about no sex, him cheating or fighting with him. No matter what excuse he gives he has no right to disrespect you in that manner.

As for the sex drive thing I lost my sex drive while pregnant and never gained it back really everyonce in a while I will get the urge but I am a single mom and don't have time to date so I take a shower and go to bed lol I am not sure if it ever truly comes back but I know you have to feel like its natural and not forced.

Quoting Myfirstlittleone (B.B.M):“ It doesnt help you get in the mood by pressuring you cause then you almost start to feel like its a ... [snip!] ... shower and go to bed lol I am not sure if it ever truly comes back but I know you have to feel like its natural and not forced.”

he got mad at me cuz i work next to this guy at work and gave the guy my cell number, we live close to each other and want to car pull.. we are both married and not interested in each other like that, but still he got so mad, cuz "some guy" has my number... I show him my phone all the time and prove nothing is going on but he still don't believe me. is the saying true? The guilty dog barks first..? ? ? lol He is also getting controlling, telling me that i can't talk to this person and can't talk to that person.. he really only wants me to talk to his mom and dad and my parents and step-dad..... family.. etc.. I'm not allowed to even have friends...

Quoting mommy of 1, wife..and wan:“ he got mad at me cuz i work next to this guy at work and gave the guy my cell number, we live close ... [snip!] ... the time and prove nothing is going on but he still don't believe me. is the saying true? The guilty dog barks first..? ? ? lol”

Very they get insecure and think you must be doing the same. Cheaters usally have some form or anouther of trust issues with themselves and others.

Quoting Myfirstlittleone (B.B.M):“ Very they get insecure and think you must be doing the same. Cheaters usally have some form or anouther of trust issues with themselves and others.”

ok... I umm.. we'll, need to get away, but i can't cuz i got the baby and no one has room for the two of us, and my hubby won't leave...

Quoting mommy of 1, wife..and wan:“ ok... I umm.. we'll, need to get away, but i can't cuz i got the baby and no one has room for the two of us, and my hubby won't leave...”

where he doesnt pay rent you could get him evited explain your situation to the land lord or go to the police and hav him removed threw them. If both fail you could get anouther place or ask the state for housing assistance will you get everythig in order.

Quoting Myfirstlittleone (B.B.M):“ where he doesnt pay rent you could get him evited explain your situation to the land lord or go to ... [snip!] ... threw them. If both fail you could get anouther place or ask the state for housing assistance will you get everythig in order.”

his name is also on the lease... land lord wouldn't let it be just me since we are married..... So cops can't do anything.... I have one dilemma...about moving out.. My dad lives with me, due to his financial situation... HE helps with the bills...but my hubby won't...odd huh.. lol

Quoting mommy of 1, wife..and wan:“ his name is also on the lease... land lord wouldn't let it be just me since we are married..... So cops ... [snip!] ... out.. My dad lives with me, due to his financial situation... HE helps with the bills...but my hubby won't...odd huh.. lol”

I would suggest the police cause he his putting your son in danger by what he is doing so they may or may not make him leave or the state they could help you get on your feet I had to do it for a little while I felt embarressed about it when I would go shopping but it really did help me get my life in order.

Quoting Myfirstlittleone (B.B.M):“ I would suggest the police cause he his putting your son in danger by what he is doing so they may ... [snip!] ... do it for a little while I felt embarressed about it when I would go shopping but it really did help me get my life in order.”

yeah, I'll think about which one will be the best option.. lol THANK YOU!

Quoting mommy of 1, wife..and wan:“ yeah, I'll think about which one will be the best option.. lol THANK YOU!”

Np hun if your ever need to talk about ideas or vent just send me a message   I hope everything works out for you.

Quoting mommy of 1, wife..and wan:“ girl won/'t talk to me.... idk lol I am the only one working and paying the bills. and he wants to bring ... [snip!] ... little slut into my house??!!?!?!?!! not cool.... I just can't stand the look on my son's face when i make my husband leave...”

awwww im sorry its soo hard when theres a little one involved. maybe have him stay someone else but be there while you work. how old is the LO? maybe you can tell him daddys going to work?

Quoting Mommy of Kaylee Allison:“ awwww im sorry its soo hard when theres a little one involved. maybe have him stay someone else but be there while you work. how old is the LO? maybe you can tell him daddys going to work?”

my LO is 13 months old and really attached to his daddy...

how about this, i promise it will work, next time you get into a fight just get him to hit you on his own somehow and then call the police and have him arrested for assault and domestic violence, then while he is in jail file for divorce sighting that he is violent and you will get custody of your LO and you can also get him banned from being anywhere near you when he gets out of jail. i have known people that have had that happen to them and once their SO hit them then the police would get involved but not until their SO got violent would the police do anything.