re: soooo

Quoting Wolfgirl:“ what really gets me is she tries to talk me out of it. it took so long, even after we agreed to try ... [snip!] ... take on just to have another baby..........yet my mom still feels she has to point this shit out to me like i'm blind to it  ”

I know how you feel! I always risk having a preemie because my cervix is weak! I don't remember my dreams much though thank goodness!

Quoting Proud mommy of Peyton:“ I know how you feel! I always risk having a preemie because my cervix is weak! I don't remember my dreams much though thank goodness!”

they aren't so bad with Luke deployed, but when we can TTC again they will probably roar to life like before, im not looking forward to it. i know once i have a baby in my arms though i wont care what i have to do to keep him or her because i've already seen my son without a pulse. once you deal with something like that, or like you have with the losses so close to viability, i think it really changes a persons view on what they would do for their child. I know every one with a loss hurts and suffers, but I've seen 19 weekers struggle to breath and a baby at 14 weeks gestation can't do that so I don't think its the same kind of suffering...............does that make sense? .I know every one says "i'd give my life for my child" but I've also seen people faced with the similar choice of giving up an organ(kidney), or piece of one(liver), and their first questions were "how bad will it hurt?" and "what happens to my child if I say no?"....my first question would be "what time do we do it?"