Quoting Miss Erica .:“ I just can't see the big deal! And to be honest, if her daughters were crying and morbidley upset ... [snip!] ... for NOT being ashamed to step up and get "help" before it's too late. Maybe that is JUST the point she is trying to make.”
I think it just boils down to how the girls feel. If they are embarassed than she over stepped. If not, no big deal.
If they ARE embarassed then hopefully she'll realize "Oops, I over shared" and if they aren't then they are probably proud that maybe they will help some other families by example.
And I think what she said is true, we don't tend to see our kids for what they are. We either have weight/body imageissues our selves and worry that they are too fat, or we are in denial and think they are perfect even though they are overweight.
I sometimes check these type of calculators in between WCE's just to have an idea: