re: How to tell the parents your preggo...

Quoting Ash ;]:“ They did a papsmear because i was going to go back on birthcontrol. and then they did blood work to check and see if i was pregnant, forgot to mention that. lol”

yeaa my dr did a papsmear when i was getting back on BC but i had to ask for a pregnancy test lol...it seemes like that should just be something they do no matter what when your getting back on BC

I had a doctors appointment the day after my boyfriend kicked me out of our house and my mum graciously let me live with her again I was only 17. I got the test at the doctors and she called straight after my appointment and I told her then. She just told me to come home and have a cup of tea. She was incredibly supportive and she knew what I was going through having had two kids by the age of 18. Now she's all clucky and the clothes come piling in!

I told my dad when I was about 18 weeks pregnant. He lives in Australia so I had to do it over the phone. He just asked if he could take the father. Typical dad response. But then he said that if that's what makes me happy then he's happy for me.  Biggest shock since I found out I was pregnant!

The extended family were the worst really, most of them were happy for me and sent their congratulations but my two aunties started pressuring me for an abortion and saying "That poor baby to have you as a mum"  

Lucky my mum put them in their place!

well i took the test with my bf who is now my fiance (we live together) he was really excited and i was just in shock im 18 and going to be 19 in aug. it took me a couple of days to tell my mom i told her over the phone and i started to cry because i didnt want her to think i was too young to be a parent. she just told me that a baby was a gift from god and everything would be ok. i was worried to tell my dad because he waited me to wait until i was married and wasnt to happy that i moved in with my fiance befoer i was married .lol when i told my dad was when me and my fiance went over there for dinner before we ate i said a prayer and at the end of it i was so ready to get it out that i was pregnant that i said and youre going to be a grandpa again lol no one knew that was coming out that way.  

I told both of my parents when I came home from college for a weekend. I'm only 19 and I was scared out of my mind to tell them, I thought I'd be such a disappointment in their eyes. I started balling right after I told them and my mom just held me and told me everything would be alright and that God does everything for a reason! They were both very understanding and they are helping me so much through the pregnancy. My mom is even getting super excited and buying a bunch of stuff already and I'm only 15 weeks haha! Just tell them early that way it doesn't look like your ashamed of it, you shouldn't be anyway babies are a blessing!

well this is how i told my mother......
me: *running into the kicthen* mommy pormise not to kill me?
mommy: why?
me: look *hands her pregnancy test*
mommy: oh god we have no money for this!!!
me: *crying* im sry mommy
mommy: *a few bad words and us fighting*
after that like the next day she gets the baby a sweater!! then rubbs my belly all excited so needless to say she got over it REAL quick!

Quoting *Caroline*10-20-09*:“ yeaa my dr did a papsmear when i was getting back on BC but i had to ask for a pregnancy test lol...it seemes like that should just be something they do no matter what when your getting back on BC”

they did that with me told not all healthclinics do the thothey should!

OKAY THIS IS HOW I TOLD MI PARENTS ONE MI WAY AFTER MI BABIDADDI TOOK ME TO THE HOSPITAL FOR A CHECK UP AND TO MAKE SURE I WAS REALLY PREGNANT. I CAME HOME WROTE IT ALL IN A LETTER. ABOUT GOING TO THE DOCTOR AND WHEN MI DUE DATE IS AND ALL. THE NEXT MORNING ON MI WAY TO SCHOOL. I SNUCK IT IN THE MAILBOX SINCE SHE S THE ONLY ONE WHO CHECKS IT.AND WAITED TO I GOT HOME SOMWE COULD TALK. AND THEN WE WENT OVER TO MI BABYFATHER'S HOUSE AND TALK TO HIM AND HIS PARENTS

Quoting 17yearoldmommy2be:“ OKAY THIS IS HOW I TOLD MI PARENTS ONE MI WAY AFTER MI BABIDADDI TOOK ME TO THE HOSPITAL FOR A CHECK ... [snip!] ... IT.AND WAITED TO I GOT HOME SOMWE COULD TALK. AND THEN WE WENT OVER TO MI BABYFATHER'S HOUSE AND TALK TO HIM AND HIS PARENTS”

so what did your mom tell you?

Quoting Alejandra16 ITS A GIRL!!:“ so what did your mom tell you?”

she yelled and she cried and screamed and told me mi life was over and i should know better and that she raised me right and everthing but then she came round and talk about eveything before,during,and after the baby all night

LOL my mom knew I was pregnant before i did /=
I had gotten blood work done because of my medication
not knowing they do a routine pregnancy test everytime,
and they called my house and thought my mom was me and
told her. So my mom actually told ME i was pregnant.

I kinda had it easy but not really cuz it never really came out my mouth that I was pregnant... I actually fainted in Sam's Club (bulk store) by the food stand!! She was like Nicki!!!! The reason why young women faint is cuz they're pregnant... you PREGNANT???!!!!! So I really jus shook my head yes instead of really telling her but I still had to explain!!! Still was scary and the car ride home was kinda quiet... But we're cool now!!! Then she said she already figured cuz when she was pregnant with me she couldn't eat burgers, and I stopped eating them...

I found out I was pregnant when I was about 5 weeks a long. I couldn't figure out how to tell my parents, so my friend suggested that I hint to my mom that I think I might be and ask for a pregnancy test. So I told my mom "Hey, I think I might be pregnant." she laughed at me and said "You haven't been showing any signs of being pregnant." Because she expected I'd be puking everywhere (but luckily I haven't had morning sickness yet and I'm 7w5d now ;]) and so I gave my friend a few dollars to run and get me a pregnancy test, I peed on it, waited for the little pink lines, and then ran out of the bathroom and handed it to my mom. She took it, looked at it, and walked away to go have a cigarette. I thought I was in a lot of trouble; but I wasn't. She wasn't angry, but as she put it she wasn't jumping for joy either. She told my dad, and they've accepted it. I've got an ultrasound on the 30th to make sure everything is going the way it should be, and I'm due February 7, 2010  

I found out I was pregnant when I was like 3 weeks..My boyfriend and I were soposed to get married and sence i'm a minor we had to get married threw the court and my boyfriend had just turned 20 and i'm bearly goingt o turn 16! so it was a big deal...Well anyways my mom found out when she took me to go get a pregnancy test at the clinc so me and my boyfriend could get married and i did'nt think i would end up pregnant! so i just gave my mom the pappers and she looked at me really pissed!
and all she said is
"WHEN WE GET HOME PACK UP ALL YOUR SHIT AND YOUR LEAVING MY HOUSE..IM TAKING YOU WITH YOU BABYS DAD AND YOUR HIS PROBLOM NOW!"
fucked up huh!
but thats how it happend and i dont regret it im actually really happy and so is my boyfriend..and in july were getting married cuase im going to be 16!
your parents will get over it trust me!
my mom is happy now!

JUST DONT HAVE AN ABORTION BECUASE YOU WILL REGRET IT FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!
GIVE UR BABY UP FOR ADDOPTION IF YOU CANT HAVE HIM!
THERES MILLIONS OF CUPLES WHO CANT HAVE BABYS!
AND WOULD LOVE TO ADOPT!

I told my mom the day after I found out. I just recently found out on Wednesday (6.5 weeks) and I told my mom on Thursday. I was scared of course,plus I told her on the phone. She told me she actually already knew, which I knew she did. She was/is supportive and she stayed calm with me. I thought she would act the opposite.

im 18 almost 19 i still havent told my mom she so proud of me cause im in the army n stuff n she does not like the guy cause of certain complicated situation so im still trying to figure out a way to tell her cause im 16 weeks pregnant n i can't hide t n my mom just has such a hard way off being but owell i luv my baby n i need her support its to much stress to keep a secret so big from ur parents so im tellin her this week but just trying see the perfect way to tell her this sucks i just hope she loves me and accpts me cause i need her their for me n plus i need go tot he doctor n i want her to be the one to go wit me