re: How to tell the parents your preggo...

Quoting SamanthaAnn:“ Aw thats cute! i still have to tell my uncle which im dreading so much! But when my mom finally got ... [snip!] ... family is happy about it so theres only three more important people to tell but i keep putting it off cause im too chicken lol”

lol my mom made me tell my granny thank god shes like not able to like get out of her chair really fast lol all she did was look at me like with a look that would kill now shes all happy and stuff and now my cousin whos like a few months younger than me is jelous because im gonna have a baby shes trying to get pregnant and i told my grandma lol and shes like your cousins what im like ya she told me that lol soo lets just say my granny was like omg what has happend now a days lol my dad he didnt talk to me for like mmm a little while and him and his gf were calling me a lier about it saying i was trying to get attention when i brought the ultrasound pics my dad almost shit him self lol and he said he was sorry now that im 39 weeks almost 40 lol he fixed my bfs truck soo the baby had a ride to ride in and he filled it up with gas lol and got rid of the gf who told him i was lieing lol

Quoting 6 DAYS LEFT:“ lol my mom made me tell my granny thank god shes like not able to like get out of her chair really fast ... [snip!] ... truck soo the baby had a ride to ride in and he filled it up with gas lol and got rid of the gf who told him i was lieing lol”

well at least hes taking it good...i havent talked to my dad since i was 9 years old so he doesnt even know im going to have a baby...he doesnt even know im 18 yet...so im like whatever he dont need to know but my grandma died when i was 9 from cancer but this is going to be my grandfathers first great grandchild so hes excited...hes saving up to by the baby her first halloween,christmas, newyearsand thanksgiving outfit. I was like whatever floats your boat grandpa. Im just glad hes finally getting out of his house to buy all this stuff!

Quoting SamanthaAnn:“ well at least hes taking it good...i havent talked to my dad since i was 9 years old so he doesnt even ... [snip!] ... outfit. I was like whatever floats your boat grandpa. Im just glad hes finally getting out of his house to buy all this stuff!”

lol grandparents are soo funny when it comes to grandkids and im sorry to hear about your dad that really sucks ya my grandma and grandpa both died when i was 6 one in a carcrash and one a month later due to injurys from the carcrash my mom was the one driving the car she got hit by a logging truck the guy was drinking and driving but i know they are excited that im pregnant

I waited four in a half months... i was sure my mom had figured it out by then but i guess she was just not trying to. I was 17 and a senior in high school. i woke up one morning while she was doing her excersises and i decided i had to tell her. i sat her down and told her she was going to hate me. that there was no way she could love me after she found out. then she guessed and i said yes... she was in shock.. said we will get through this together. that babies are miracles! that she loved me.. a few days later she did tell me she was disappointed. but she only said it once. she knew that i needed her support more then anything. she was there for me for everything. ever single doctors appointment. she was in the delivary room with me and my sons father didnt even make the time to fly up so his son could be born. my mom cut the cord and held the baby right after i did! she loves that little boy

Quoting 2 DAYS LEFT:“ lol grandparents are soo funny when it comes to grandkids and im sorry to hear about your dad that really ... [snip!] ... driving the car she got hit by a logging truck the guy was drinking and driving but i know they are excited that im pregnant”

oh man im soooo sorry to hear that! My grandmother died when i was 9 from lung cancer...a week before my birthday....now my grandfather smokes a whole lot more than what he used to but now hes got his mind so fixed on this baby thing that sometimes he forgets to smoke but nobody says anything lol. I just know that this baby is going to be soooo spoiled.

My boyfriend at the time and I weren't planning on getting pregnant. All we were planning was our wedding! But, my parents went out of town one weekend... And well you all know what happened! My best friend had gotten pregnant a month before me, and we joked about how I was going to be next... Too bad we were right. I hadn't had a period in two weeks and so I took the test. It came out positive, so I told my boyfriend. We told his parents the next night and they were thrilled. I was so scared to tell my parents. I come from a very conservative Christian family.... I was afraid of what they would think. They were sitting in the family room watching a movie and I just walked in and started crying. My mom asked what was wrong and I eventually stammered out that I was pregnant. To my surprise my parents were both extremely excited about the baby. We pushed up the wedding a little just so our baby would be born in wedlock. Now we're married, pregnant, and extrememly happy.

i recently went through this, im sixteen just had a miscariage in february which my mom knew about that pregnancy was easy to tell, since she expected it. But this time before i told her she begged me not to get pregnant again (i didnt get pregnant because i had a miscariage) on marh 28th my boyfriend came home after being gone for 2 months in a christian home. and my mom knew that we'd be excited and well.. you know. but i just put the test in an envolope and gave it to her after work. and everything is finee! shes really supportive 

well Im 19 going on 20 && my mom had already known I was late so she bought me a test and it was negative but I started feeling sick so i went to the doctor, and she told me I was so I called her first crying and she just told me to stop crying that she couldnt be happier because she was a grandma now.

IM SOO SCARED!!
im 19 years old,,,im turning 20 on november 8th and having my 1st baby november 27th!
ive bin with my boyfriend 2 years my family LOVES him, hes in my house every day and my biggest fear is that theyll be different towards him, we found out 2 weeks ago we went to this really great free clinic in manhattan and they are gonna cover my prenatal care free and everything ,
i guess you could say my parents would never expect this from me, my mothers kinda noticing, shes like u gotta stop eating all that food youre getting chubby!
i have my 1st prenatal appointment the 30th i was thinking ill show her the sonogram pic and tell her...do they give u a pic ur 1st visit? ill be about 9 weeks by then...

I found out I was pregnant when I had my biopsy results read to me for my CD. It was a shock and I was told I couldn't do treatment while pregnant. My mother and I have a great relationship, so when she called me to ask how the results were, I told her they can't do treatment right now and she guessed that I was pregnant. She was worried about my health, but after a few doctor appointments, she feels great about the whole thing!  

I was 18 when I found out I was pregnant with my daughter, and the only way I could think to do it was to tell them straight out and help for the support. Well.. My mom died when I was 17 and my dad totally changed. He wasnt supportive. He asked me if i thought about abortion or adoption. I told him to fuck off. I mean, hell I have been on my own since I was 17. So, here I am, Happily Married, 22 years old, with a 3 year old daughter, and im pregnant again. Guess what.... dad still isnt supportive. I guess Some parents will be supportive and some wont. You need to decide whether you can take this on for the next 18+ years of your life... alone... or with help and have a serious discussion  

When I found out (officially from the doctor) that i was pregnant, my doctor did an ultrasound. that came in handy!

First we told my husbands grandparents. I had my husband go to the car and grab the ultrasound pictures. He tried to hand them to me so I could show them but since it was his family I made him do it. I was so scared cause I was not sure if Maw Maw liked me or not. But he basically just handed her the photos... His grandma was so happy she screamed and started crying. which in turn made me cry lol. She started laughing and looked at Paw Paw and said "see I told you she was pregnant" lol

We told my mother after we got home that weekend. I called all my sisters into the family room... (I am the youngest of 8 kids and 7 of us are girls!) once everyone was in there I layed the ultrasound pictures in front of my mom. Everyone could see them and the main reaction was "gasp" lol my mom was happy about it.... I am her baby and I think a part of her knew I was pregnant.

After leaving my moms house, my husband and I went to my in-laws. I was not looking forward to this... walking up to the house I was shaking so bad. When we got inside my husband aited about 10 minutes and handed the pictures to his mom. His mom and me have never been on the best terms and at the time we were not married yet. She started crying (not a happy cry!) and my father-in-law looked happy. She started complaining cause she was going to be a grandma before she turned 40... then started drinking! She had my husband when she just turned 19... she looked at us and was like your too young. (*we were both already 19.) My husband looked so upset at his mothers behavior. When his sister got home she was very excite to be an Aunt. (she is only 16) she went and started comparing all her ultrasound pictures to my sons lol.

after a couple of months my mother in law came around. She is still upset that she is a grandma before she is 40 but its not bad... atleast now it is not always being said.

i turned 14 in july and found out i was preggo in august.
but my mom and i aren't that close so i didn't have a problem telling her.
when i told my aunt and uncle [ they're the ones who raised me ] i was terrified shitless.
well i took the test and the 2nd line was very faint so i took a picture of it and sent it to my aunt, without even telling her and she called me and was "OMG your preggo" i started crying and i told her i was really sorry!! but that Travis and I were going to stay together. so then she was like ok y'all can move in with us.
my uncle was disappointed and was like well we'll do what we have to do.
so about 6 days later we moved in with them.

my advice would be to just straight up tell them, i mean they might be really diapointed but it'll get better in the end.

well .. I knew i was pregnant because i never miss my period but i yooka take home test and offically found out i called my boyfriend and told him i had news i couldnt wait to see him face to face and i said i have news for you i said i took thetest and im pregnant he said really i said yeah then he hung up and told his mom asap lol so she knew first then my parents i was so nervous in telling my parents especially my dad and brother becaues i knew that they would go crazy i didnt know how to tell them his mother was so supportive of me in the mean while i was so stress because my cusin had a baby when she was young and they was also telling me to be careful before i turned out pregnant ao i knew that they would react in a negative way but months went by and my mom ask me out the blue if i was having sex with my boyfriend and i eventually said yes and so she wanted to talk with us little did she know i was already pregnant so we had planned to tell her the they she wanted to talk to us but we were to scared because she was saying to protect oursleves because we wouldnt want to get pregnant when we were young omg i really bad and felt guilty during the whole conversation i had to hold his hand tears came out in my eyes because i felt like a disappointment so then we had planned to take her out to a resturant with his mom coming as well but then i started to think that wasnt a good idea because i didnt know how she would react and i didnt want to embarrss her i decided i had to this on my own omg the day i fianlly decied to tell her i was so nervouse i i kept walikng in and out her room then i would walk back to my room and i had to take deep breaths and tell myself be strong just tell her i planned out evrything in my head first so after walking in and out a couple time i finally sat on her bed and i was so nervouse i said that i had to tell her something but then i cryed after telling her that and she was like what tell my whats wrong but my tears couldnt stop coming down she was like what is it your father ? i shook my head she was like did you have an arguement with (Jose) my bf i shook my head then she was like what your pregnant ?? i shook my head and said yes and started crying even harder she put her head down and didnt say anything then she was like how do i know i told her i took a test and she was like but why didnt you tell me when i had that talk i said i was nrevouse how was surpose to tell you that when you were saying how you didnt want that for me at such a young age but then she said stop crying its going to be okay i am your mother i am going to be her for you and the baby we will get through this ( i was still crying ) and we talked a little and she said tell your sister so she called her but i couldnt say nothing i was crying and my mom was like do you know why she crying and my sister said no and she got nervouse and started crying to we were always like that if we saw each other cy we would cry as well but yeah my mom told her i was pregnant and she hug me and said it was okay and taht she loves me and she was like yeah im going to be a aunt and i started to laugh my mom was like im going to be a grandmother at that moment i felt a big relif i felt so much surport .. And they next day my mom was like i told your father (they are divored) and she told me he wanted to talk to me and she said that he was mad he was like see thats what happens when you dont look after your children .. and basically he blamed it on her but yea me and my dad never been close so we spoke on the phone and he was like why didnt i protect myself and if i was prepared to deal with having a child and he asked more quesions but that was that he was like i told your brother and he so mad .. days went by and he came up to me and asked me if i was kepping it i was like yeah !! duh he was like why i was like what you mean why he said your young i was like so what im keeping it and thats that but yeah thats how i told them ..

Im 18 and im only 8 weeks pregnant. I found out when i was in my 6th week. I live here at home with my mom because imma full time college student and i work full time. She had just bought the movie Juno. I dont know if any of you have seen it, but its a little sad. Well me and my mom watched it together on a friday night and after the movie was over she told me she hopes and prays that i would never get pregnant untill i completed college. The next day i had an appointment at my OB GYN to start on some birth control. I guess its routine to take a pregnancy test. So the doctor came back in with the results and told me that i was 6 weeks pregnant. She gave me prenatal vitamins and packets of info. When i came home i just left everything on my bed in my room and went to go get my boyfriend to tell him the news. My mom found the vitamins and called me.So i explained everything to her. She wasnt so happy for the first day. The second day she told me that shes not upset that people make mistakes and insisted on an abortion, but i couldnt go through with it because i had one when i was younger and i felt guilty and displeased and a litle depressed afterwards. So to this day (two weeks later) my mother kind of disowned me, told me shes very disappoined, and rarely speaks to me. Im hoping atleast by the time the babys born that things will change.