Ok so Somebody....ANYBODY please knock some sense into me!

So how many of you ladies actually want to have another baby already? My fiancee has always said as soon as our son was born he wanted to try for another, I finally got him to agree to wait at least one year and then we'll see, but now that's all I think about. I don't ever really remember enjoying pregnancy, my labor was beyond HORRIBLE to put it at best, but for some ridiculous reason I want another baby. It's like I feel I found my calling in life finally or something! haha. I've been thinking about it for the last two months, and I've been wanting it more and more, almost enough to open my mouth to my fiancee, which I know once I do it'll be ON! Lol. I am on the pill right now, I have 5 more months of refills before I have to renew my rx so I was almost thinking about telling him once those packs are gone then we could try again, IF I could wait that long. Jeeeeeeeeeez what's wrong with me?! Haha. Any of you going through this?????????

Ugh yes! I want the excitement of seeing a positive pregnancy test (I wasn't excited when I found out with Camille), I want to be excited about another gender ultrasound and I want to go through the whole naming thing. I can't wait to experience giving birth again and seeing my baby for the first time! It's pretty much all I think about and I feel insane.

i do and have for months now but im trying to hold off for at least 5 more months lol 5 more months he will be almost 1 lol

I was excited about the positive test cuz he was planned and I was excited about the gender u/s I honestly could not wait! But the actual pregnancy I hated, but it's all I want right now? haha. If I waited til those pills were gone Tristen would be between 9 and 10 month, but I really wanted our kids to be at least two years apart.....doesn't seem like that's gonna happen   I dunno if I should just say something to Jeremy right now, I"m trying to hold out as long as I can before mentioning anything.....but I almost fill like telling him and being like "I REALLY want to wait til he's at least one so no matter what I say don't go for it til then!" haha. Ah I dunno.......

The main thing that's stopping me right now is that I know in a few months she's going to be crawling and getting into everything and I doubt being prego and chasing a baby around would be fun! Also.. I want her first 2 years to be just me, her, and her daddy.. she deserves all our attention!

that's what my argument was but he countered back with "well what about our other children? they're never gonna just have you and me so it's not far our first child gets the special attention" argh i hate the fact he always brings up valid points and then i can't come back with anything!  

my husband doesn't want another baby....











i do.
my pregnancy and labor were horrible. i literally thought i was going to die while in labor, it was that bad for me.
but i want to do it all over again for another blessing.  

ok i cannot BELIEVE im saying this, but i remember how quickly jamie grew, and i like that madden's sooo tiny and im gonna hate to see him get bigger and bigger....im not as against having another (adopting-i am NEVER getting pregnant again!).But on the other side, i feel like i lost a lot of freedom (i know-DUH!) so im not ALL psyched up to have another for a while.

I'd love to have another one, but I won't (intentionally), due to past childhood stuff. Honestly, I had an easy pregnancy and loved it. Labor sucked bad, but it was worth it for Matthew. I guess if he hits 5 years old and starts begging for a younger sib, I would start considering it. Barring that and any "accidents", he's an only kid.

My little one is already a week old and the thought has crossed my mind more than once how much I miss being pregnant, how much I miss that aspect of my identity, and how much I cant wait to have another one!

I looooveee my daughter to pieces and my labor was a dream, as was most of my pregnancy..

I plan to wait about a year though..

i want another one too. i have 3 already but they grow so fast and i love having kids, i love being pregnant i actually miss it alot!!! we have both agreed to wait until Niyah is 15 months and have one more...then im getting my tubes tied (i think) it kills me to know that once i have them tied i will NEVER be able to have another baby!   but damn i dont think i could afford 5 kids!  

At least I'm not the only one here! Haha. Has anyone felt like this and then finally grew outta this stage? Or does it only get worse? I'm right there with ya pandora, I want another baby really bad, but at the same time I just want my freedom. I want a year to be able to go to a bar and not jus sip on water, I wanna be able to relax at home and drink a beer whenever I want. And I"m seriously counting down the days til I get to go snowboarding again, I've waited waaaaaaaay too long!!!! But then that makes me feel selfish and I almost feel guilty about it!   Ah ! I hope this is all just a phase otherwise I don't know if I can honestly hold out. Maybe if I can just wait til after I hit the slopes a couple times.....Lol.

evertime i see a preggo chick i am so bummed....i miss feeling seth inside of me

my big problem is i am ADDICTED to small babies.I love how tiny and cuddly they are, and when they start getting bigger i miss it sooo much.I know i wanted jay to have a vasectomy, but it's that taking away the options part that i cant get past.
We're looking into adopting in about five years.Maybe by then i'll have this second adolescence behind me.

pandora wrote: my big problem is i am ADDICTED to small babies.I love how tiny and cuddly they are, and when they start getting bigger i miss it sooo much.I know i wanted jay to have a vasectomy, but it's that taking away the options part that i cant get past.
We're looking into adopting in about five years.Maybe by then i'll have this second adolescence behind me.

I think that's alot of my problem, I totally miss him being so small. Even though I have alot more fun with him now cuz he's active, I miss him being in those premie clothes and premie diapers (No he wasn't premie he was just really small) and everytime I have to pack more clothes away I get a little sad! It just goes by waaaaaaaay too fast!