EXPECTING AGAIN???? HELP!

hey ladies I usually dont do this but I need help! im a 21 year old mom that just had my daughter may 20,2009 and 4 days ago found out i was pregnant again but asked my mom what I would have she said BOY and never is wrong?? Im scared is it ok to feel this way esp when its so close?? please i really need advice!

Quoting .:Abby's Mommie:.:“ hey ladies I usually dont do this but I need help! im a 21 year old mom that just had my daughter may ... [snip!] ... have she said BOY and never is wrong?? Im scared is it ok to feel this way esp when its so close?? please i really need advice!”

I am lost. Is it okay to feel what way?

Quoting .:Abby's Mommie:.:“ hey ladies I usually dont do this but I need help! im a 21 year old mom that just had my daughter may ... [snip!] ... have she said BOY and never is wrong?? Im scared is it ok to feel this way esp when its so close?? please i really need advice!”

ok are you excited or not? are you thinking about keeping the baby because your mom said its a boy?

Quoting .:Abby's Mommie:.:“ hey ladies I usually dont do this but I need help! im a 21 year old mom that just had my daughter may ... [snip!] ... have she said BOY and never is wrong?? Im scared is it ok to feel this way esp when its so close?? please i really need advice!”

what....

I don't know what to say . But you should probaly get on birth control after baby number 2 . Not tryna be rude . I just now after I had my daughter in March I waited like 2 months and got an IUD I was not tryna get pregnant at alll .

I hope everything goes well for you and your family .

Quoting .:Abby's Mommie:.:“ hey ladies I usually dont do this but I need help! im a 21 year old mom that just had my daughter may ... [snip!] ... have she said BOY and never is wrong?? Im scared is it ok to feel this way esp when its so close?? please i really need advice!”

id be scared! lol i deffinetly dont want to have another baby until my daughters atleast 3. i wouldnt be able to handle being pregnant and still taking care of a baby as young as yours. not saying its not possible lol.

It's normal to be scared about being pregnant with any child.

Are you just scared in general, or because your mom thinks it's a boy?

what   what's all the mish mash about the whole "mom said boy and is never wrong" about  

scared because im expecting again so close to each other i just dont feel like im mentally prepared for this one just maybe in denial and nerves?

lol good luck with this.

Quoting .:Abby's Mommie:.:“ scared because im expecting again so close to each other i just dont feel like im mentally prepared for this one just maybe in denial and nerves?”

it's normal

Quoting .:Abby's Mommie:.:“ scared because im expecting again so close to each other i just dont feel like im mentally prepared for this one just maybe in denial and nerves?”

well yeah its normal to be scared. your LO is still really young and now your expecting another one. i'd be scared shitless honestly. i think as time goes on and your pregnancy pregresses you will feel better about it. does your family support you?

my mom once i told her i was pregnant she said it was a girl now she says its a boy im against abortion and was on birth control but really made me an angry person even when i was on low estragen med.and im married ladies so its not like a random guy lol just nervous and wanting to know if its normal i mean all my siblings are years apart and feel indifferent becuase this one is going to be a year and 3 months apart

yeah my family is beyond excited but because were a close puerto rican family and with our family its all about a biggg family and ill the the only one who wants 2 kids but thats all while my sisters have 3 each i just wanna get tied after this one but feel in denial and i didnt with my first

Quoting .:Abby's Mommie:.:“ my mom once i told her i was pregnant she said it was a girl now she says its a boy im against abortion ... [snip!] ... normal i mean all my siblings are years apart and feel indifferent becuase this one is going to be a year and 3 months apart”

yes it is normal.

if abortion is out of the question its safe to assume adoption is as well so your only option is to go with the flow. im sure you will work things out and learn to cope with two little ones. is hubby happy?