Depressed?

I posted this last night, but, no one replied, so, I thought I'd give it one more shot..
I'm not sure what's wrong.. This is my second pregnancy and I feel like it's my first. I hate the fact that I'm weighing so much & I hate the stretch marks and all of the unfun stuff a pregnancy brings. With my first I loved being pregnant and I loved my pregnant belly and now I'm just ready to have him and lose weight. I never feel pretty, I always just feel fat & not pregnant, I hate putting on make-up or even getting dressed. If my husband and I ever do anything I have to have the lights off. I feel disgusting. How should I try to get passed this? He just gets upset with me when I say anything about it, & then I just get twice as upset. I'm trying really hard to be in a good mood. I'm 27 weeks now & I had my first son at 28 weeks. So, I'm scared to death I'm going to go into early labor. So, I'm trying to keep the house clean and get everything ready and my husband doesn't help, he makes everything worse. & I get to the point to where I just want to scream & never stop. What do I do to keep this marriage from just falling apart.. I'm so lost & confused & just sad.
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Quoting Brenden & Braxton's Mommy:“ I posted this last night, but, no one replied, so, I thought I'd give it one more shot.. I'm not sure ... [snip!] ... never stop. What do I do to keep this marriage from just falling apart.. I'm so lost & confused & just sad. quote”

Sounds like you are feeling overwhelmed too. Try to back off on the cleaning, you don't want to send yourself inot premature labor.
You do sound depressed, but I suspect it;s more hormonal. I don;t think there are any depression meds that you can take during pregnancy but there are some vitamins that help. B & D are great mood enhancers as well as exercise (may not be an option for you now). I sure hope you feel better

Quoting Colleen13:“ Sounds like you are feeling overwhelmed too. Try to back off on the cleaning, you don't want to send ... [snip!] ... help. B & D are great mood enhancers as well as exercise (may not be an option for you now). I sure hope you feel better”

I'll definately try the vitamins. I'll try anything at this point.. I just want to feel better.. I know this can't be helping my kiddo. Thank you!

I am pregnant with my first and I feel so overwhelmed and stressed. My Husband doesn't seem to make me feel better most of the time. I am told it's mainly hormones. If I am getting mad at him or ourmessy house...I just go in our room and just sit there and tell myself everything is okay...I am okay...the baby is okay and we will work through this. It's all in your head....just try to tell yourself everything will be okay.

Quoting OsweetchildrenO:“ I am pregnant with my first and I feel so overwhelmed and stressed. My Husband doesn't seem to make me ... [snip!] ... baby is okay and we will work through this. It's all in your head....just try to tell yourself everything will be okay.”

The one time I tried going into our room he followed me in there and then it caused a fight. But, thank you! I know it's gotta be in my head.. I just hope things get better soon.. He's going to work night shift and I know I won't get any rest then..