Deeply needs some info ...

My fiancee and I have been trying for almost a year now to conceive a child. The problem were having is due to the fact that my periods are very irregular. I haven't had a period since January 09. No, I'm NOT pregnant at the moment. I've taken home tests, and even had blood drawn and ultra sounds to re-assure myself.
I currently was just put onto birth control. I went to my planned parenthood, and talked to the doctor there. She told me that if I were to take the birth control for a while, it'll help regulate my menstrual cycles. She even added that after I've taken it for awhile, and stop taking it, I should be able to conceive a child.
I know this is going to off the wall, but I've never had an while having . I know how strange and crazy that must sound. But I have had them from the oris area though. The doctor said that wasn't an issue on why I haven't conceived yet. But I do admit, and my fiancee can vouch, I do get VERY aroused during .
I've had my regular pap-smear check ups. My ovaries are perfect, my pelvic exams come back great, and I don't have cervical cancer or any signs of it. The doctor just keeps telling me "When God wants you to conceive, he will let you". Yet I still feel lost inside as though I'm doing something wrong. I feel like it's my fault I'm not conceiving. Why, I have no clue.
I want a child. And so does my fiancee. Is there any advice anyone could give, to help figure out what to do. It'd be greatly appreciated.

Thanks ... Boots ...

I really didn't understand all of your post but, I was on the pillfor 10 years and got pregnant the month I got off it. You should ask some ladies in the TTC forum. To getpregnant with this baby I used softcups and charted my BBT, it worked!