How do I tell him I'm pregnant?

So last month I tried talking to my SO about b/c because I was having issues taking the mini-pill at the same time everyday. He completely flipped out because I suggested we use condoms, and we fought for like 2 hours about it, and he was pissed at me for a couple of days afterward. For what? Having a conversation about birthcontrol? It was absolutely ridiculous. Here's the thread if you are interested

Finally I told him not to worry about the condoms, so I changed the time I took the pill and asked him to help remind me to take it. He agrees, but then he doesn't follow through. I miss more pills. My LMP was 10/29/09 and we had sex on 11/5 and 11/7. I've been feeling pregnant, even only 5 days after we had sex the last time! I joked around with him last week about being pregnant (since I was nauseous) and he said, "You'd get an abortion if you were pregnant, right"? Like he doesn't KNOW I'm pro-life (at least and especially regarding my own uterus).

Now I'm getting faint lines on 2 different types of pregnancy tests. I'm going to confirm tomorrow with some concentrated morning urine, but all indicators point to being pregnant. How in the world do I tell him???

Just tell him he doesn't have to worry about BC OR condoms anymore for the next 40-42 weeks.

You're the second person on here who's gotten a BFP at 2.5 weeksish. Damnit it's making me want to test! (I'm TTCing if you couldn't tell lol)

I would just tell him in a joking way "See what did I tell ya!" but my hubby knows I joke about serious shit all the time.

Quoting Misty*B/G twins*EBFB/HM:“ So last month I tried talking to my SO about b/c because I was having issues taking the mini-pill at ... [snip!] ... tomorrow with some concentrated morning urine, but all indicators point to being pregnant. How in the world do I tell him???”

Oh my Misty. I hope for the best.

Quoting Aido'sMama EFFB™:“ Just tell him he doesn't have to worry about BC OR condoms anymore for the next 40-42 weeks.”

 

Knowing my attitude, I'd just come out with it like "Hey, since you wouldn't wrap it up, you're going to have a special gift arriving in nine months. Hope you're happy!"

Quoting Aido'sMama EFFB™:“ Just tell him he doesn't have to worry about BC OR condoms anymore for the next 40-42 weeks.”

hahaha.. that will work!

Quoting Aido'sMama EFFB™:“ Just tell him he doesn't have to worry about BC OR condoms anymore for the next 40-42 weeks.”

haha..this made me laugh...Im letting my SO get the full effect cuz Im getting on every type of birth control after I have this baby lol

and OP...just tell him...and know he shouldnt expect you to get an abortion...you told him to use a condom...he should have realized he had som killer sperm...I can see if you didnt tell him..but he even got pissed...i would say serve it to him

Quoting Aido'sMama EFFB™:“ Just tell him he doesn't have to worry about BC OR condoms anymore for the next 40-42 weeks.”

    he shouldnt have complained about condoms, now he has a LO on the way...

Quoting Misty*B/G twins*EBFB/HM:“ So last month I tried talking to my SO about b/c because I was having issues taking the mini-pill at ... [snip!] ... tomorrow with some concentrated morning urine, but all indicators point to being pregnant. How in the world do I tell him???”

how quickly did you get your bfp with your twins??

When I asked him to use condoms he accused me of cheating on him. Grrr.

Quoting ashley [::“ how quickly did you get your bfp with your twins??”

4w

I tested on a Thursday, it was negative, and Sunday it was positive. I was using the digital test though...

Quoting *Sara Nicole*:“     he shouldnt have complained about condoms, now he has a LO on the way...”

exactly what she said... and oh my misty what if it is 2 again!!??  

Quoting Meep:“ You're the second person on here who's gotten a BFP at 2.5 weeksish. Damnit it's making me want to test! ... [snip!] ... I would just tell him in a joking way "See what did I tell ya!" but my hubby knows I joke about serious shit all the time.”

When was your LMP?