need to vent...help ladies...

i was talking to my bf on the phone and it was a pretty good conversation and then he made me talk to his friend in which i did, well he told me it was gonna be ameeting with 2 of his colleagues and then he made me talk to other people rater than that so i just asked him who were there still and that was it another party?! but i did not ask him because i was mad and then all of a sudden he told me not to ever talk to him that way.

i am so fed up i was not even mad when i asked that and he said i should change that trait of mine. i don't wanna be a diff person when i asked him about it i was just being my jolly old self and he thought i was shouting at him and that my tone was bad....

so we fought and he told me not to talk to him because im not my proper self and that i started it and i should stand by what i did. Which means what?!! i don't know what to do.. i feel like when it comes to him and it affects him he can react the way he wants to and if its me it should not be an issue...he also said that i should remember it is me who is shooing him away what does that mean?.... and that i am stubborn yet i know i did not do anything!!!!

i really feel bad now what should i do? i know i did not do anything yet to him it is all my fault and i don't wanna admit to something that i did not do....

i really need your opinions girls for once i really don't know how i should feel anymore if i should just not mind him or always tell him what i feel about his reactions...

i really feel bad and also i am suffering from PPD and he knows that but still he does not cinsider me and he also said i should consider him... and its always like that...

It sounds like he's starting things and then blaming them on u. I've had that type of relationship and that was only in the end of it when I didn't wanna break up with him and he didn't wanna break up with me so we would start fights and then blame eachother for them. How is ur guys relationship? R u on the rocks or have things been good? If they have been good maybe he just misunderstood u.

Tabatha wrote: It sounds like he's starting things and then blaming them on u. I've had that type of relationship and that was only in the end of it when I didn't wanna break up with him and he didn't wanna break up with me so we would start fights and then blame eachother for them. How is ur guys relationship? R u on the rocks or have things been good? If they have been good maybe he just misunderstood u.

That's what Iwas thinking. It sounds like he's trying to make you out to be the bad person, so are you sure he hasn't done something bad?

We are really in good terms most of the time.. just got off on the phone with him turns out that yeah he misunderstood me ..... but he was waiting for me to say sorry also but we both agreed no one will say sorry but he admitted he made a mistake... men are so full of pride .... it wont make em less of a man if they apologize.... grrrrrr!

and he said it was all nonsense! oh my ! i really don't know what to do with him!

gonna say hurtful things then he is gonna cal back and think like nothing happened!  

That's how guys are. They think that if they take whatever they did back and apologize and give u a hug and a kiss that everything is ok! That's how quick they forgive and forget!! LOL!!! My opinion is if he has forgotten then u should too, just let him know that he did hurt ur feelings and try not to let there be a next time!!! Good luck with everything!  

i know thanks girl, i am trying to get it ou of my head already and forget about it....
yeah men are so full of pride!!!!!