scumbbag!

So heres the story..... my boyfriend/ fiance/ ex [idk where we stand anymore] but we had a fight and he started hitting me [jan 09] and i left him; a day later my ex [jw from a loooong time ago] messages me; and then the next night he comes over and we have sex... me and jw hook up.. my ex cl didnt know that me and him were done... then I go down to FL [feb to march] and find out I'm pregnant.. by jw... then I come home and go back to cl... I told him that I was pregnant told me him or the baby.. so in march I got an abortion.. april, may and june go good without a hitch we are doing fine.. july comes along... cl breaks up with me to be single and living the free life... and he wasnt happy with me because of what I did... SO he left... for 2 months I received 40 a week... though seriously about going to court for more... then he begs for me back I go back...he has his friend over every single night smoking the legal weed.. and treats me like shit... so I call my dad and he picks me up... and then cl tells me that I shouldnt leave and that if I did I would regret it... sooo a week later his stepbrother moves in our sons bedroom... then he asks for me back soo I go so all three of us have to sleep in a small ass room.... two weeks go by then he goes to his moms to use the internet... he checks his myspace and this chick messages him..... so he gives her his number.... then he comes home and tells me that hes trying to hook this coworker up with his best friend.... that night he kicks me out to try to get with some slut... they go out on a date... then he begged for me back again... so I went back...

He didnt erase her pictures or her number from his phone so i sent her a text message saying that he had a girlfriend.. and she said thank you for telling me I didnt know.... I said yeah I know you didnt know he tried this shit before with a stripper.... he had warned me before I texted her that if i talked to her he would break up with me and never talk to me again.... welp oops... sorry. lol.

sorry its long.. then 3 more weeks go by.... i get fed up because I am sick and tired of smelling weed in my apt by the 25 year old stepbrother, ppl coming in and out of the apt whenever... smelling cig smoke in the apt.. so I start complaining... he gets fed up and kicks me out because he cant stand bitching... and since I dont pay any bills or contribute a dime to the apt I dont get a say... I'm a stay at home mom with no car and no liecence... in a small ass apt. and i cant get a say what goes on... I told cl that I was leaving to go to fl to visit my grandparents... he had a bitch fit about it.... I said its only nine days deal with it... we were going to come back to de thrusday but.....

he had this party at the apt.. there was going to be alot of ppl at this shindig... a couple days before he he texts me and says are you on? I said yeah he said we are thru I told you not to contact her and you did. I trusted you... He tried to ask her to come to the party because he liked her and he wantedto get 'his dick wet' because I cheated on him with jw.... he wants payback for that.. then he wouldnt talk to me.... then saturday he calls my grandmothers cell and ask me where I have been all day.. I told him ive been in key west I told you all goddamn week!!! then we dont talk the next day.... then he calls late the next night... and I cop an attitude with him and then he says we fcking thru I cant stand you bitching.. then yesterday he tells me that hes unhappy and he doesnt wanna be with me... then tonight i ask him if he wants to talk and he tells me to fix what I messed up with that girl... so he can be with her.. and tells me that nothing is going to change if I go back to the apt.. the stepbrother is going to contuine living there until whenever... and I get no say.. and then he tells me if I love him that I need to let him go and let him party... then I told my grandparents that I want to stay longer than planned because I am stressed and I dont want to go home yet...

So I am staying until black friday and cl is having a hissy fit about it because he wants to see his son every holiday.... and doesnt want to miss any with him.. then he was saying shit like I want to be a family again if you come hoem thrudsay .... I'm like you know what no fck you..... I will stay here as long as I want to.. this is his family too you know.. and hes yelling at me telling em that hes going to take me to court and shit like that... I say bring it on.. i'm done with this petty ass shit.. hes playing mind games.. I hate it.. I'm sorry its long I have to vent!!!

You are the dumb one here honey.

He's just plain old stupid. . .you are just letting him fool you

I know...  

Thats a hell of a lot of drama to be dragging a child through. Sounds like some people need to grow up and be parents.

What the fucking hell did you keep going back to him in the first place for? The guy is an obvious fucktard and you kept letting him bounce you better than Michael Jordan.

Do yourself a favor and just walk away from the cock-spank. Go sort out the custody arrangements and cut your losses. Jesus it pisses me off when women let themselves get treated like that. Didn't you think you deserved better long ago mama?

i hope you are only like twelve for being stupid enough to keep going back to someone like that   doesnt sound like a safe situation for yourself OR you child.

wow.....i mean i dont even know what to say  

i think if he wants to be with her let itgo and DONT take his ass back again

Sounds JUST like my ex-boyfriend. Leave him, and be done with that shit. Nobody deserves such terrible treatment. My scenario was very similar, even to the whole apartment building (it was a small building) smelling like cigarettes and the apartment reeking of pot. I didn't have a child at the time, thank goodness. But I kept going back, again and again, and again. You have to stop it. I wish I had cut my ex out of the picture long before I did. Instead I have a huge scar on my arm where he eventually stabbed me. You said he's already hit you before... who's to say he won't do it again? Or do worse? Get out of that mess!