help...
posted 17th Nov
My boyfriends brother's ex is a little psycho heartless bitch.
He wanted to have everything to do with the baby when it was born... She didn't call him when she had it.. Now won't tell him when she was born, how much she weighed, no pictures.. It's sad..
She was from Montana.. (3 hour drive from North Dakota town where he lives).. She told him she won't go after child support but to stay away from her and the baby or war will come from her...
Then recently he got child support papers from the state of South Dakota (where she moved, so she lied to him just so he couldn't keep her in the state of Montata from the court system) I'm not saying she's a bitch because she is requesting child support from him. BUT she lied about it and is using the baby as a pawn to hurt this guy.. She has some serious issues. He didn't want to be with her because she is like a kid to take care of, can't do a damn thing laundry, dishes nothing..she couldn't get a job either,besides the fact she gets jealous really easily; and even called the cops on him saying he was hitting her (when he had all the marks on him). -that was the night he broke up with her.
I was wondering if there was any chance this guy could get rights to see his baby.. it will now be a 10 hour drive to see the baby but he doesn't care.. Can his parents get rights too? She is totally refusing right now..
quoteposted 17th Nov
Im not sure of each states laws but I think he should deffinatly look into it. If she put him down as the father, or even if he requests DNA testing and proves she is his daughter I would think that in order to get child support she would have to let him see her, especially if he is willing to drive over there to see her. If he takes it to court to get visitation rights I dont see a reason why he wouldnt get them.
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Utahposted 17th Nov
For as crazy as she sounds, I think he could get custody if he wanted to. He just needs to prove that she is the way she is
quoteposted 19th Nov
yes he has rights to his baby! he can actually have her move back because she moved the baby away from him and didnt consult him! he needs to go contest custody. If he isnt on the BC he will have to do a paternity test. As long as he fights it through the courts and lets her act like the crazy things will go better for him. If he can get a lawyer that will be best but if he cant afford it he still needs to document EVERYTHING! anytime he talks to her on the phone through texts anything!
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