Don't know if I should stay ...

Lately my SO has been acting different ...

He's stopped being affectionate with me, he doesn't want to touch me unless we're going to have sex. Which I'm not ready for. But the other week, he was pressuring me and pressuring me and I kept saying no but he was taking my clothes off and I was only 2 weeks pp and to tired to fend him off but I kept saying no but he kept going on and on about how it had been ages and how I'd like it and in the end he was doing it anyway so I just lay there and let him. It hurt so much and he didn't care.

He doesn't help with our LO anymore either. I asked him to change his nappy once and he acted like it was the biggest favour in the world. And he did it wrong, on purpose. He just wants to go out with his mates and drink.

I told him we should take a break and all he said was "No." and refused to leave. He doesn't live with me so it's not like I was kicking him out of his house.

I don't know if I should stay with him. In the year and a bit we've been together, he's never acted like this. It's so sudden and I don't know what brought it on. I just wish he'd go back to that sweet guy he used to be.

       

he sounds like a jerk to me !

It sounded like he raped you.


I'd press charges.

Sounds like a wanker. And sounds like he raped you.  

Quoting r a v e n.:“ It sounded like he raped you. I'd press charges.”

 

It doesnt sound like he cares much about what you have to say. and that seems like borderline rape to me and if he cant respect the fact that u dont want to have sex 2 weeks after giving birth to your child then you should leave him just cause he says no doesnt mean u have to stay with him especially if he doesnt live with you.

I'd tell him to GTFO!  

I just don't know what made him change  

He was always the sweetest guy to me, really romantic and loving.

And then suddenly this happened.