i seriously

hate men. i couldnt have picked a bigger piece of scum to get pregnant by, i need to grow up and get away from him for the sake of my child. i seriously wish i could just tell him the baby isnt his, just to be rid of him. just needed to vent lol. these damn pregnancy hormones are making me crazy!

Quoting ashhhh*:“ hate men. i couldnt have picked a bigger piece of scum to get pregnant by, i need to grow up and get ... [snip!] ... tell him the baby isnt his, just to be rid of him. just needed to vent lol. these damn pregnancy hormones are making me crazy!”

? so tel him that, if thats what you think you should do.

Quoting Addisons Momma!:“ ? so tel him that, if thats what you think you should do.”

uuuuuh no i wouldnt recommend that  

im sorry hun   i had a lot of those feelings during my pregnancy too.. but my BD kinda ended up stepping up by the time christian got here. Give him your expectations and if he doesn't grow up then let him know he won't get to bein in your childs life?? Things might get better tho!

But i have said that exact same statement many many times.

Quoting Addisons Momma!:“ ? so tel him that, if thats what you think you should do.”

im scared he can legally get me into trouble...he's the type to take it there..

Quoting Rollie Pollie Ollie [BOSM:“ im sorry hun   i had a lot of those feelings during my pregnancy too.. but my BD kinda ended up stepping ... [snip!] ... get to bein in your childs life?? Things might get better tho! But i have said that exact same statement many many times.”

can i keep him away? i tell him that, if he doesnt step up and respect me hes out...then he starts screaming fathers rights and blah...hes major drama and take things to EXTREMES!

Quoting ashhhh*:“ can i keep him away? i tell him that, if he doesnt step up and respect me hes out...then he starts screaming fathers rights and blah...hes major drama and take things to EXTREMES!”

pfft he can try and fight you for visitation and stuff but no court is going to take a child away from there mother without a VERY good reason. You don't even have to put his name on the birth certificate. Then he would have to pay for a paternity test and a lawyer to take you to court which is pretty damn expensive.

Quoting ashhhh*:“ im scared he can legally get me into trouble...he's the type to take it there..”

I don't know your situation but IMO i feel that unless there is abuse you need to let him in your babies life.... not for him, not for you but for your baby. I am married but i know that i would never keep our kids away from their dad no matter how much i hated him. like i said i do not know YOUR situation though so my best advise is just to hang in there and try and make the best of it,

Quoting *~*11 weeks left*~*:“ uuuuuh no i wouldnt recommend that  ”

normally i wouldnt either, but if shes scared for herself or the baby, shes got to do what shes got to do.... if she just is sick of him, obviously thats not a good enough reason, but i got the vibe theres more than that.

Quoting Rollie Pollie Ollie [BOSM:“ pfft he can try and fight you for visitation and stuff but no court is going to take a child away from ... [snip!] ... certificate. Then he would have to pay for a paternity test and a lawyer to take you to court which is pretty damn expensive.”

thats what i thought, but seriously hes such a pain. i feel like such a crappy mom for my baby having a shitty dad. i dont want my baby to have to pay for my mistakes forever  

hes not abusive physically, but mentally he is for sure. like he goes to extreme measures to upset me and make me feel like shit and to let me know he doesnt give a shit..im just so tired of it im ready to do anything. he seriously was hoping id have a miscarriage for the longest time, hes accepting it now and wants to be there but its like at the cost of my sanity seriously. i physically cant take dealing with him.

Quoting ashhhh*:“ hes not abusive physically, but mentally he is for sure. like he goes to extreme measures to upset me ... [snip!] ... it now and wants to be there but its like at the cost of my sanity seriously. i physically cant take dealing with him.”

you are pregnant..... there is no reason to deal with him but thats a diff story when baby is born i would just ignore him until baby is here just tell him you will text him with any updates he needs to talk to you about something important leave a message and you will call him back   Then when baby is born set up visitation at your home when you can have someone else there with you until he grows up

Quoting *~*11 weeks left*~*:“ you are pregnant..... there is no reason to deal with him but thats a diff story when baby is born i ... [snip!] ... back   Then when baby is born set up visitation at your home when you can have someone else there with you until he grows up”

sounds like a plan, thanks so much!

Quoting ashhhh*:“ hes not abusive physically, but mentally he is for sure. like he goes to extreme measures to upset me ... [snip!] ... it now and wants to be there but its like at the cost of my sanity seriously. i physically cant take dealing with him

So just leave him..He should still be able to see his child and what-not, But just because you're having his kid doesnt mean you have to be in a relationship.

Tell ass fuck that I'll personally fly to KY and help him to stay away  

Seriously Ashley, this stress isn't good for you or the baby. Eric needs to give you space and just cool it.