FML

today i had to work 12 hours and then i come home to my living room a fucking wreck. my daughter who it 2 is awake. my parents were watching the kids at my house and there was a full baby bottle of formula sitting on the table. my step mom made it because she thought my son was hungry but she just left him swinging in the swing and he fell back to sleep. shes wasting my formula and i yelled at her not to make a bottle unless she was gonna feed him. i cant find a decent person to watch my kids in the evenings at my house. my husband works nights so he could have cleaned up when he was home, nope he makes me do it. i asked him to wash the baby bottles so i wouldnt have to being as i just worked 12 hours. i bet he was playing that POS xbox i wanna smash it to fucking pieces. is it too much to ask that i get a fucking break??? i know my daughter is gonna wake up at 5:30 am and i wont get anymore sleep after that because my husband wants to go to bed when he gets home. well i dont fucking think so. hes going to clean up the living room hes gonna wash the damn bottles. and im gonna go back to bed. then when ive had my rest he can go to sleep. why is this so hard for me? im so stressed out i dont know what to do if i could afford to be a SAHM i would but my husband cant ever get a good enough job that he can keep for longer than a few months.

i put a knife in my SO's xbox...that caught his attention.

Quoting MAMA♥SANTOS[BBM]:“ i put a knife in my SO's xbox...that caught his attention.”

i told my husband that i was seriously gonna take it out in the street and run it over and he threw the biggest temper tantrum and told me he hated me and he wanted a divorce. i think he loves that thing more than me

Quoting Mama Bird of 2:“ today i had to work 12 hours and then i come home to my living room a fucking wreck. my daughter who ... [snip!] ... could afford to be a SAHM i would but my husband cant ever get a good enough job that he can keep for longer than a few months.”

Lol.. my b.f is afraid of me now when it comes to helping me.
I snapped... 1 to many times (5 to be exact in the last 2 years)... and I mean I yelled at him, I through his clothes in the garbage, his dishes at him, I washed all the dishes i didnt break and packed them away ina box and gave him a paper plate.. a single.. paper plate...
lol

ETA: I work "16" hours a day.. 8 at home with the child, 8 at my evening job.
He works... 6.. MAYBE 7 total. even when im at work because he only has to watch our child for 2 hours before her bedtime.

Quoting Mama Bird of 2:“ i told my husband that i was seriously gonna take it out in the street and run it over and he threw ... [snip!] ... he threw the biggest temper tantrum and told me he hated me and he wanted a divorce. i think he loves that thing more than me”

hhahaha oh man..if carlos ever did that id knock him out.
i work 14 hr shifts too.. i feel ur pain =(

you yelled at her for making a bottle and your baby fell asleep?

What a bitch.

 
I'm sorry momma. I know how you feel, to an extent. Jeffrey and I don't live together due to him going to school. I live with my grandparents right now to help us save money and what not. I'm not working because Jeffrey doesn't want me to and neither do my grandparents. They all want me to be able to stay with Patton. Well, obviously Jeffrey isn't here, we only see him on weekends or sometimes when I take Patton up there during the week. He and I have been having problems lately and right now we're "taking a break". My grandmother is batshit crazy- no lie. She drives me bonkers. There are days/nights that I just lock myself in my room with Patton and cry. I feel like I never get a break, like I never get five minutes to myself.

In fact, I would almost put money on it that Jeffrey is out with friends right now or has friends over and I'm here, 2 hours away, with a fussy, teething baby that literally JUST went to sleep.

I hate video games period! But Shawn wants to get a PS3 now... I really like them so I'm not going to complain. Plus, he works 4pm-midnight most of the time so he won't have much time to play it anyway  


But.... BREAK THE XBOX!

Quoting MAMA♥SANTOS[BBM]:“ i put a knife in my SO's xbox...that caught his attention.”

'our' xbox got that red ring!! Yay!! I couldn't be happier :-D
OP... It's not too much to ask... We have obe day a week that we have free laundry, and when I get home from working my 8hrs, two loads of laundry havegotten done. I can sympathize (sp) with you ladu!

Quoting Miss Rhondy:“ 'our' xbox got that red ring!! Yay!! I couldn't be happier :-D OP... It's not too much to ask... We ... [snip!] ... laundry, and when I get home from working my 8hrs, two loads of laundry havegotten done. I can sympathize (sp) with you ladu!”

what is this red ring people speak of???

Quoting Brycen&Livi ♥:“ you yelled at her for making a bottle and your baby fell asleep? What a bitch.”

no she made it when he wasnt even hungry he had just ate an hour before. she thinks hes always hungry when he just wants held and she makes him a bottle all the time and it gets wasted

Quoting Miss Rhondy:“ 'our' xbox got that red ring!! Yay!! I couldn't be happier :-D OP... It's not too much to ask... We ... [snip!] ... laundry, and when I get home from working my 8hrs, two loads of laundry havegotten done. I can sympathize (sp) with you ladu!”

ours did too and he sent it in and they fixed the god damn thing

Quoting Brycen&Livi ♥:“ what is this red ring people speak of???”

its means the X is broken..thats when they get sent in to be repaired..it lights up red around the power button instead of green & their world goes to shit.

Quoting Brycen&Livi ♥:“ what is this red ring people speak of???”

apparently there are four different types of red ring, but they all are system failure, I guess it's just different type of failure. All the red rings are bad (according to bf). Ours has three red lights, and that means no game time for bf  
edited... so unfortunately he is waiting for his box to get here so he can send it away..,