Your expierences.. Help?

Have you and your SO faught once and it got pretty escalated and he walked out.

If so has he ever walked out for more than 12 hours?

When he'd come back?

Did he ever come back?

He walked out. Said we were over. He came back the next afternoon. He spent the night at his moms.

There were a few other times he left, but always came back a few hours later.

They just need time cool off.

You okay honey?

My husband has left lots of times lol.

No, he has never walked out for more than 12 hours.. I think the longest he left was for an hour/hour and a half

I usually give him some time to let him cool off (and let myself cool off!) Sometimes I'll just wait to talk to him till he comes home, and I'll try and work things out calmly.. Other times I'll text him and tell him to come home so we can talk about things.

My SO never did that, but i have done it to him.

Quoting ♥ ILU ♥:“ Have you and your SO faught once and it got pretty escalated and he walked out. If so has he ever walked out for more than 12 hours? When he'd come back? Did he ever come back?”

Yes we've had a fight when he walked out and another fight where I walked out. Both fights happened in the evening. The fight where he walked out he was back later that night well very early morning and where I walked out I came back after driving around all night in the morning. We just needed time to calm down and think even though we've both said we were leaving for good. We always work it out.

Quoting MaryTheDirty PirateHooker:“ He walked out. Said we were over. He came back the next afternoon. He spent the night at his moms. ... [snip!] ... were a few other times he left, but always came back a few hours later. They just need time cool off. You okay honey?”

no he left 10 this morning and its now 12:30 at night here. He walked out without a working cell phone, without his car. We don't live near bars, or malls. We have no public transportation here. I don't know where he went or who's house he walked to. I can't call anyone because I don't know any of his friends because they most likely girls so he doesn't want to make me jealous therefore wouldn't tell me. He doesn't hang out with people really at all. I checked the firedepartment he volunteers at and no luck..

I don't know what to do.

Dale Jr. wants his dad so bad he's nine months old and all day he kept pointing out the window or pointing at me then him then the air and saying da da.

He'd be heartbroken if he didn't come back.

he only left for a few hrs or so which i didn't care. but i left this time, moved out actually lol but we're still together

Quoting ♥ ILU ♥:“ no he left 10 this morning and its now 12:30 at night here. He walked out without a working cell phone, ... [snip!] ... out the window or pointing at me then him then the air and saying da da. He'd be heartbroken if he didn't come back.”

Oh momma, I'm sorry. I'm sure he's just fine.

Maybe he's just sleeping over at a friends? Have you tried calling the police station?

In the beginning of our relationship my SO would always leave when we fought. Sometimes he would leave for a day or two and I would be totally distraught. He was always at his friend's which was a walking's distance away.
Now sometimes he will leave in the car and be gone for a couple of hours if we fight really really bad but that hardly happens anymore.
I know you posted this way earlier and he is still gone I hope he turns up!

Quoting ♥ ILU ♥:“ no he left 10 this morning and its now 12:30 at night here. He walked out without a working cell phone, ... [snip!] ... out the window or pointing at me then him then the air and saying da da. He'd be heartbroken if he didn't come back.”

My hubs left without his cell too. Try not to worry to much. I'm sure he will come home soon if not in the morning. Maybe he just needs more time to think about things.

Quoting MaryTheDirty PirateHooker:“ Oh momma, I'm sorry. I'm sure he's just fine. Maybe he's just sleeping over at a friends? Have you tried calling the police station?”

I'm going to tomorrow at 10 when it's been 24 hrs but until then they won't do anything.

Quoting ♥ ILU ♥:“ I'm going to tomorrow at 10 when it's been 24 hrs but until then they won't do anything. ”

Yeah. But they can tell you if he was picked up or anything.

Quoting MaryTheDirty PirateHooker:“ Yeah. But they can tell you if he was picked up or anything.”

Really do you just call and ask if they've seen him?

Quoting ♥ ILU ♥:“ Really do you just call and ask if they've seen him?”

Tell them he hasn't called or casme home so your just checking to make sure he wasn't arrested..

okay thank youu =]