birth control

I took the debo shot when i was 16-18 it took awhile to get out my system. When i met my so we fell pregnant very quickly. i have 1 angel baby and a 20 mth an 5.5 mth old right now lol. so i know im fertile. Im gettin in the best shape of my life and i feel so good about it i couldnt afford a third baby right now, and i have my hands full with my 2 other kids both under the age of 2 plus im getitng healthy and i went from 118 to 200 pds with both pregnancies i cant put myself through that again. I wanna know are there birth controls out there that dosent make u gain weight? ive been scared to go on them b/c im scared of gaining weight and when i wanna concieve again like in 3-4 yrs it will mess my fertility up.

i rarely wanna have sex these days b/c I DONT WANNA GET PREGNANT AND IM FERTILE S CRAP. as soon as i miscarried i got pregnant with my daughter 2 mth later and when my daughter was 5 mth i got pregnant. my sons almost 6 mth so im counting down to makin it a whole yr without gettin knocked up.

Quoting carmenisa:“ I took the debo shot when i was 16-18 it took awhile to get out my system. When i met my so we fell pregnant ... [snip!] ... daughter was 5 mth i got pregnant. my sons almost 6 mth so im counting down to makin it a whole yr without gettin knocked up.”

........i don't know i don't use BC never had to..but i'm not as fertile as you bottom line.....i know about the gianing weight on it and fucking up fertility.....in hs i took it and then i didn't bleed for 7months after i stoped takin bc.....some fucked up shit....

i don't know condoms?

Quoting AmWay ©:“ ........i don't know i don't use BC never had to..but i'm not as fertile as you bottom line.....i know ... [snip!] ... hs i took it and then i didn't bleed for 7months after i stoped takin bc.....some fucked up shit.... i don't know condoms?”

lol its so funny we never used condoms but like 2xs but i started tonight. honestly i never really am in the mood to really have sex. he always is so i cant hold out forever but im constantly reminding him to be careful. damn comdom came off inside of me tonight. we just started usin them again. im just becoming obsessed with not gettin pregnant right now at least for 3 yrs id be proud to go 1 yr. ice lost 60 of the 90 pregnancy pds i gained. down to 140 and just startin to feel good about myself and i killed myself to lose all the pregnancy weight and still have 20-30 more to lose b/c i do have some extra bodyfat now so being 5'2 110-120 is a good weight for me. im going to not stress about it but i def dont believe in abortions so if i was to concieve id proabbly be fat and miserable lol. i love my babies and want 2 more in the future. but my body needs a break.

Quoting carmenisa:“ I took the debo shot when i was 16-18 it took awhile to get out my system. When i met my so we fell pregnant ... [snip!] ... daughter was 5 mth i got pregnant. my sons almost 6 mth so im counting down to makin it a whole yr without gettin knocked up.”

I'm pretty much in the same boat as you... I have a 20 month old & a 2 month old.... I think about sex and get prego (hah!!).... I'm getting an IUD next week, so hopefully that goes well... I will let you know in a couple months!! ;)

Quoting carmenisa:“ lol its so funny we never used condoms but like 2xs but i started tonight. honestly i never really am ... [snip!] ... to concieve id proabbly be fat and miserable lol. i love my babies and want 2 more in the future. but my body needs a break.”

o i know


i'd kill to loose 30lbs

i can't

i'm stuck at 140 too and work out

hehe pretty steamy stuff when the condom falls off! thats good sex....

hehe i'm always secretly hope that happens when weuse one...just a guilty pleasure but i don't mean it when i'm thinking logically

Quoting AmWay ©:“ o i know i'd kill to loose 30lbs i can't i'm stuck at 140 too and work out hehe pretty ... [snip!] ... i'm always secretly hoping that happens when use one...just a guilty pleasure but i don't mean it when i'm thinking logically”

ive spent the last 2 yrs with the extra baby weight on. i couldnt lose the weight from my daughter i wasnt eatin properly either and i didnt work out enough but 5mth later i got knocked up anyhow. and here i am now i work out 6 days a wk i only take 1 day off b/c i do alot of strength and core training and im sore as hec sometimes but i have come such a long way so im going to figure out a way to slim my chances gettin preggo im being safe i just have become obsessed with being cautious now. better safe then sorry, haha it too me 5.5 mths to get to 140 so i still have 7 more mths untill my sons first bday i plan to be 120-125 by then with the way im going if i dont get pregnant i can reach that goal with 3 pds loss a mth.

Quoting carmenisa:“ ive spent the last 2 yrs with the extra baby weight on. i couldnt lose the weight from my daughter i ... [snip!] ... bday i plan to be 120-125 by then with the way im going if i dont get pregnant i can reach that goal with 3 pds loss a mth.”

yeah i love to eat...thats my vice if i could cut back on the sweets more often then indulging every night on some piece of Halloween or holiday damn brownies cupcakes cookies.pizza fries shit like that.....

i think theres no hunger like breast feeding hunger tho...like i HAVE to eat something and alot of it....to feel full....before pregnancy i was hungry but not like this.....even during pregnancy i could barley eat the first two tris..no chocolate anything,cereal...pizza it all tasted gross.....and heart burn city even ppj's

but now i eat everything and more cause it tastes good things i never ate before either......

i work out yeah at least 4-8 hours a week.....and sometimes i get burnt out and sometimes i obsessand work out 2 hours a day at least for days during the week

but i still have been stuck at 140 for a month now ....suck

Quoting AmWay ©:“ yeah i love to eat...thats my vice if i could cut back on the sweets more often then indulging every ... [snip!] ... work out 2 hours a day at least for days during the week but i still have been stuck at 140 for a month now ....suck”

u have to change up your routine. i do all types of excercises i run on the treadmill. elipticalsi do pushups, situps, squats, lunges, taebo, core training, lift weights, dancing, i do these twist things for my love handles lol,dead lifts, and i google excercises and look on you-tube for new things to do for inner thighs, back, and sides. im not big but just like every other mama im defintley changed after having a baby. i eat junk food on my cheat day. today was my cheat day i had 1 oatmeal raisin cookie and some fries some 1% chocolate milk which is healthy for u but i consider it a treat since all i drink is water. but on the regular days im just eating walnuts, dry fruit regular fruit, veggies, steam fish or grill chicken, salad, tuna, turkey sandwhiches on whole grain bread, lean cusines when im lazy or tired to cook and yogurt. those are the main things i eat. i only drink water and fat free milk. but on my cheat day which is usually saturday i make sure to save my calories. i eat from 1000-1300 a day but i try to burn at least 4-600 a day but if im gonna have a cheat day i eat like 500 cals of heathy and proabbly 500 of whatever i want lol. its soooo hard with the cravings but once u get past that or limit it down u will see pds droppin off quicker. 3 pds a mth still can be a big payoff at the end of the yr.

Quoting carmenisa:“ u have to change up your routine. i do all types of excercises i run on the treadmill. elipticalsi ... [snip!] ... get past that or limit it down u will see pds droppin off quicker. 3 pds a mth still can be a big payoff at the end of the yr.”

i have this health thing with drinking low fat milk

i know they say lower percent has as much calcium if not more (at wic they do) buti don't know if believe that.....


i just remember the recommended saturated fat intake......
like 30g or so a day
calories is too many numbers for me....

neway i stop counting ....at some point....around where i think i've gone over cause i just don't care.....i feel so hungry....

the days when i'd go with out eating much if anything at all seem so far away like hell

I didnt get on birth control before my pregnancy because I was scared to gain weight but now I'm scared to get pregnant. I have the Mirena IUD. It really hasn't made me gain weight. If you continue to eat and workout the way you do, i doubt you will gain weight. After you lose all the weight you should workout 3-4x a week to maintain the weight.

Quoting carmenisa:“ I took the debo shot when i was 16-18 it took awhile to get out my system. When i met my so we fell pregnant ... [snip!] ... daughter was 5 mth i got pregnant. my sons almost 6 mth so im counting down to makin it a whole yr without gettin knocked up.”

dude.
i'm on the depot shot right now.
this other momma just told me it was the devil. lol
i should o' asked around before getting it. now i'm afraid to get pregnant after the depot shot is out o' my system. miscarriages is going to mess w' my emotions, i don't know, i think i am gonna wait for a year to get pregnant!!
ahhhhh, lol -_-

Quoting V O R R A V O N G:“ dude. i'm on the depot shot right now. this other momma just told me it was the devil. lol i should ... [snip!] ... is going to mess w' my emotions, i don't know, i think i am gonna wait for a year to get pregnant!! ahhhhh, lol -_-”

i had the debo shot when i was 16-18 and didnt get pregnant untill i was 20 thats when i had my first miscarriage but i got preggo with amilea 2 mths later and she gave me terrible morning sickness and ihad gestational diabetes with both i also had to take progesterone pills with the beginning of pregnancy with ian b/c my progesterone level was low and they thought i would miscarry but both my kids came out fine. the debo does kinda mess with u tho. its hard to determine whats good and wats not.