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re: Marriage During Pregnancy

posted 7th Nov
you should wait to get married, it's a big decision that shouldn't be taken lightly... & I doubt you've been w/ the guy more than a few yrs, no?
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I live in Miami, Florida
posted 7th Nov
Quoting Mommy 2 Be (Due May 16!!):“ I never knew that your age had anything to do with being in love or when you want to get married. I ... [snip!] ... years, but honestly it's what I want and what he wants. Sorry I fell in love at a young age. Only if people seriously knew.”

I aint gonnA say nothing bad to you. My sister got married to her husband when she was 17 and pregnant and my brother in law and her have been married for 11 years on the 20th of this month. Not everyone is like this but not everyone is a fail either.
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I'm due July 14th (a girl), have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Little Rock, Arkansas
posted 7th Nov
We were going to go to the court house and then just do a reception somewhere after to save money. It worked out so that we could do it all in one place but we want to do a big wedding later probly too. It just depends on what you want. Its less stressful through a court house lol
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I have 2 kids & live in Nevada
posted 7th Nov
Quoting Mrs. Conan O'Brien:“ you should wait to get married, it's a big decision that shouldn't be taken lightly... & I doubt you've been w/ the guy more than a few yrs, no?”

Depends on what you want to call be with him. Ummmmm, Actually fully together since I was 15, but talking to him since I was 8, he's been my heart since then too.
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I'm TTC since January '10, have 1 child & 3 angel babies & live in Huntingdon, Pennsylvania
posted 7th Nov
Quoting JESSICA VEGA:“ We were going to go to the court house and then just do a reception somewhere after to save money. It ... [snip!] ... we want to do a big wedding later probly too. It just depends on what you want. Its less stressful through a court house lol”

Yeah were just going to go to the court house, he's actually sitting right beside me right now and we were talking about it. Then in the summer we will just renew our vowels or whatever and have my dream wedding. We know what we want. Love is Love.
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I'm TTC since January '10, have 1 child & 3 angel babies & live in Huntingdon, Pennsylvania
posted 7th Nov
Quoting Mommy 2 Be (Due May 16!!):“ Depends on what you want to call be with him. Ummmmm, Actually fully together since I was 15, but talking to him since I was 8, he's been my heart since then too.”

pleeease wait, ive almost gotten married twice and i'm only 21, well, fixing to be, and if i would have done it i KNOW i would have regretted it so much.
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I have 1 child & live in Georgia
posted 7th Nov
Quoting Mommy 2 Be (Due May 16!!):“ Depends on what you want to call be with him. Ummmmm, Actually fully together since I was 15, but talking to him since I was 8, he's been my heart since then too.”

well I would say wait, not because you're a stupid ass or anything but because I also got married thinking I was madly in love, we were together & living together for 2 yrs. yeaa that really didn't work out very well. idk divorce sucks ass. & the fact you're 17... well that really is young, that's just not debatable. idk
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I live in Miami, Florida
posted 7th Nov
Quoting h.:“ lol at being 17 and in love. i was "in love" and 17 too. we got married. 5months ago his ass walked out on me and our son.now im pretty much divorced and im only 21. like i said, good luck  


Me and DH fell in love when I was 17. He was 22. We have 3 kids together, been together 9 years in Feb. and have been married nearly 7. It can work and you can be in love.
OP--Do what you think is right. Don't let anyone on here change your mind. They don't know you or your relationship w/ your SO.
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I have 3 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Indiana
posted 7th Nov
Quoting Teagan's Mommy:“ Go to the court house to get married and then have a big wedding later on. Just buy a dress that flows w/your body, not a tight fitting one(that would be hard anyway)”
I agree.
Big wedding later on is a great idea -I always wished I'd have done that -I planned our wedding in 3 weeks and still wish we would have just had a big ceremony later...
if you do end up doing it before hand -look into dresses that are slimmer around under your bustline and then flow from there down.
You could also try some sort of skirt and shirt set or hmm I don't know -but yeah -good luck! ~KP
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I'm due March 30th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Berrien Springs, Michigan
posted 8th Nov
Quoting Mommy 2 Be (Due May 16!!):“ Yes I do live with him. It was a decision we all had to sit down and talk about and realized its going ... [snip!] ... bedroom. But the house my fiancee has its a 3 bedroom so we have one for us one for his daughter and now one for the baby.”

i'd just make sure you live with him for awhile before making your decision. my s/o and i got pregnant at 16 & 19. We moved in together when i turned 17. And we waited the week after i turned 18 and got married. Living with someone is a totally different experience. Especially with a new baby. So my advice is live together (with the baby) first
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Oklahoma
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