I like them, but....

I started hanging out with one of my husbands friends wife, and one of his other friends girlfriend. one has a baby who is a couple months older then mine, and the other is pregnant almost 4 months. Well they are fun to talk with and stuff and hang out with since I don't have many mommy friends. But they are always saying how they think they are fat or need to get in shape. and I just feel like I don't want to hang out with them because I am trying not to get down on myself like that anymore. It makes me feel so uncomfortable too because they are both thinner than me. I don't want to tell them it bugs me cuz I will feel rude, and I'll feel rude to not hang out anymore too. I just don't understand why girls always have to be this way. I do it to myself too and I just hate it how it's hard for people to be happy with their bodies more and more these days =[

Quoting Madison'sMommy:“ I started hanging out with one of my husbands friends wife, and one of his other friends girlfriend. ... [snip!] ... I do it to myself too and I just hate it how it's hard for people to be happy with their bodies more and more these days =[”

attention

Quoting Mayor of Crazy Town:“ attention”

that's what I think sometimes too. I just feel so weird cuz I'm not gonna sit there and tell them they are so skinny or so beautiful if that's just what they are looking for. and then it's awkward when they make a comment and I don't say anything back to it.

Quoting Madison'sMommy:“ that's what I think sometimes too. I just feel so weird cuz I'm not gonna sit there and tell them ... [snip!] ... if that's just what they are looking for. and then it's awkward when they make a comment and I don't say anything back to it.”

Yeah they want to hear how skinny thy are...I think its hysterical you don't comment back

When my friend started talking like that I would start agreeing with her. "Oh you're so right... look at ALL those rolls you disgusting cow"... etc
Of course it was all obviously sarcastic but when she realized i wasn't going to feed her compliments she magically started to find other things to talk about.

yeah I guess I could do that. but we've only been hanging out for awhile so we're not like super good friends or anything ya know? so they would prolly think I was a biatch. lol.

Quoting Mayor of Crazy Town:“ Yeah they want to hear how skinny thy are...I think its hysterical you don't comment back”

lol. Well I know they just want to hear it so that's why I don't say anything. I mean they have to realize they are both thinner then me, and I am not fat or over weight or even close, but It makes me feel like "the fat one" they have to notice that don't you think?

Quoting Madison'sMommy:“ lol. Well I know they just want to hear it so that's why I don't say anything. I mean they have to realize ... [snip!] ... I am not fat or over weight or even close, but It makes me feel like "the fat one" they have to notice that don't you think?”

Honey your so thin looking I can see your ovaries.....No worries

Quoting Mayor of Crazy Town:“ I hope you took that as a compliment”

lol. Actually I wasn't sure so I just didn't say anything. haha. sorry.
Maybe I should say that to them next time they complain.

Quoting Madison'sMommy:“ lol. Actually I wasn't sure so I just didn't say anything. haha. sorry. Maybe I should say that to them next time they complain.”

It just means your so thin your almost transparent.....sorry I should of elaborated....I was wondering why you never responded

Quoting Mayor of Crazy Town:“ It just means your so thin your almost transparent.....sorry I should of elaborated....I was wondering why you never responded”

haha yeah sorry!