MEN!!

lately my husband has been pissing me off-last week for my bday he wasnt home at all with me but out with his friend playing football-he lets his friend come over all the time and do whatever even when im working and hubby is sleeping-ive tried everything to tell him i dont want him here while no one is around yet he allows it-i just told him im eating lunch then i need to run to the store i hear his friends car pull up and he left with my son idk where they went he didnt tell me he had plans when i told him that i had to go to the store-im getting so sick of it ugh

He sounds really in considerate, is he doing this on purpose and does he realize it?

If he doesn't you should definitely talk to him and not let him just do whatever he wants, there needs to be some sort of compromise.

i totally know what u mean!!! my bfs the same but we r in the process of moving n we have to fix the house and he went to my brothers 1 night when i really needed him and then he gets mad at me for it!!! ugh i wanna slap him!

we have to be out of apt the 19th or we get locked out and this asshole sits on his ass playing videogames.......we have 1 truck to move 2 apts!!! mine and my moms

Quoting Damien's M♥mmy:“ He sounds really in considerate, is he doing this on purpose and does he realize it? If he doesn't you ... [snip!] ... doesn't you should definitely talk to him and not let him just do whatever he wants, there needs to be some sort of compromise.”

ive told him over and over i dont want his friend around and he still lets him-idk what else to do

Quoting My3Loves BASM:“ ive told him over and over i dont want his friend around and he still lets him-idk what else to do”

tell him their will be consequences, because thats not right that he's still allowing it even when he knows you don't want it.

or you can talk to the friend yourself and tell him, lol.

Quoting Damien's M♥mmy:“ tell him their will be consequences, because thats not right that he's still allowing it even when he knows you don't want it. or you can talk to the friend yourself and tell him, lol.”

oh ive tried talking to him and his response: ''your hubby said i can come over''

Quoting My3Loves BASM:“ oh ive tried talking to him and his response: ''your hubby said i can come over''”

you should be like this is my house too not just his and I think you should respect that.

Quoting Damien's M♥mmy:“ you should be like this is my house too not just his and I think you should respect that.”

in a mans eyes that will just make her a bitch! men have no common sense or couritisy (sp) i say even up the score........invite a bunch of ur friends over!!!

or just get all ssexyfied and walk around the house (if kids r gone at babysitter) and if his friends comeover make sure they see it and let him no its his loss

Quoting MaryKay®Mama2Dora'N'Ghost:“ in a mans eyes that will just make her a bitch! men have no common sense or couritisy (sp) i say even ... [snip!] ... around the house (if kids r gone at babysitter) and if his friends comeover make sure they see it and let him no its his loss”

ugh its just pissing me off-ill come home from work his friend is sleeping on my couch its like you dont do anything all day wtf

Quoting My3Loves BASM:“ ugh its just pissing me off-ill come home from work his friend is sleeping on my couch its like you dont do anything all day wtf”

thats fucking wrong id break his face!!!!


thats bs see my bf would do the same but all his friends r in relationships with bitches (all my friends are with my bros friends and we r all very mean we do get semi-controlling) our homes oR our homes we do everything sothey can listen! i have no problem going postal on my man if hes disresecting my house with all his fucking friends there all the time

it makes me even more mad i told him i had to go to the store so i ate my lunch and he and my son left with his friend idk where they went to