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I didn't get that far but by him telling my baby to stfu I would have slapped him.

Goodluck omma, do you have anyone you can stay with?

Just do it if you can. You and your LO do not need to be in that situation at all. Nobody deserves that.

You are def. in a terrible position. As hard as it is, I feel it is probably safest for both you and your baby to be removed from the situation for a little bit. While being removed from the situation it will allow you to get a grip on the whole situation and possibly allow you to come to terms with what is best for you all in the long run.

Good luck momma!

Sorry you have to go through this. Good(?) news though: a vast majority of us were in your shoes at one point or another. My first recommendation: please try to get in a better mood somehow. For example, remind yourself that he is not all that important in your world to influence your mental state.
Second: don't add to the stress by worrying NOW how to move out or change anything. You are upset, things are still heated, no decisions should be made NOW. If you and your baby are safe that is. Are you?
If you are, just try to focus on everything else but his sorry arse. Total emotional disconnect. No explanations, nothing. Let him wonder what you're up to.

In all honesty, I would stay with someone. He seems unstable so do you really want to come home one night with him waiting for you at your place? No. so I would find someone to stay with until you can get on your feet financially and emotionally.

GL

Quoting Jessa♥Elles Mama:“ Last night was the the final straw for me. My marriage is over. I cant do it anymore. I did it for 5 ... [snip!] ... way after being married? I mean its obvious its not every man but... sorry rambling again.. Ill leave it here for now...”

Im so sorry mama. I think you should make him read this... This was very heartbreaking to read. All I can say is find someone willing to help. You MIL seems nice.

He's treating you like shit because he knows he can. You have no car, and youre dealing with his bullshit everyday. He's not going to change until he realises your independence, and that your baby is better off without him. I bet one of the reasons he hasn't hit you yet is because his mom is there, and she would be a witness.

Get out of there, as fast as you can. Tbh, I would forget about your stuff... I would get your clothing and essentials together, and pack all the baby gear, and get the hell out. Maybe you can ask his mom to help. Just do it while he's working or out somewhere. And bring a relative that is big.. and strong. Don't let this man ruin your life.

I'd pack up while he's at work. Avoid the confrontation all together because it is a potentially dangerous situation. If his mother is apologizing to you, that's a big sign that something is off. Maybe after you move out, you & MIL can come up with some sort of intervention. Plus, with you gone...It may motivate him to actually seek help.

You don't deserve this bullshit & I'm sorry you're going through this.

Quoting Jessa♥Elles Mama:“ Well we live with my MIL, and Im not afraid of him or anything like that. Im jsut tired of fighting. ... [snip!] ... back for my stuff later, I just dont want to yell and scream at each other anymore. Im not afriad of him physically hurting me.”

then have the cops escort you...