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If rihanna hit chris first he should have reported it bc she could get charged even if there was no marks. Even if she didn hit him first, does that make what he did more justified? Hellll no. I agree that it is wrong to hit a man if you can't take it like one but on the same level a man never ever should physically harm you.

Quoting JAYMON'ES MOMMY:“ If you hit someone you hit them rather they bruised you or not you shouldnt have put ur hands on them ... [snip!] ... just take it different because shes a women and he's Chris Brown...Also look how big she is compared to him lol odd couple”

is she big or small compared to him? I thought she was small? I've seen him shirtless, so i KNOW he is muscular and strong.

They shouldn't have touched each other.

I know chris said he's taken anger management courses....I wonder if Rihanna took some sort of classes, too. I would imagine so.

Quoting &ra ♥ Rome:“ If rihanna hit chris first he should have reported it bc she could get charged even if there was no marks. ... [snip!] ... that it is wrong to hit a man if you can't take it like one but on the same level a man never ever should physically harm you.”

My hubby and I were talking last night about abuse. My sister had a very abusive relationship with her baby daddy. She would be the crap out of him then when she was sleeping he would beat the crap out of her. Scary stuff. Anyways I told hubby that it kinds sucks that men are built to be stronger than woman. I think they were made to be strong and warrior like to defend woman and children but sometimes men turn on woman and children and how messed up that is.

Quoting Princess KitCatti:“ oh for sure not. Only those two will ever know.”

If rihanna did hit first, which I don't think she did, chris should have told immediately told someone or on an any of his interviews to make himself not feel or look as guilty. I think it is definitely plausible that he did it from being repeatedly questioned about a lie he wouldn't fess up to. I know bc that is exactly what happened to me and I know I did not hit him first.

Quoting &ra ♥ Rome:“ If rihanna did hit first, which I don't think she did, chris should have told immediately told someone ... [snip!] ... about a lie he wouldn't fess up to. I know bc that is exactly what happened to me and I know I did not hit him first.”

If she did hit first he would be claiming that as much as possible and not have pleaded guilty if it was his self defense.

Quoting Marley Ever:“ If she did hit first he would be claiming that as much as possible and not have pleaded guilty if it was his self defense.”

Exactly. I don't know why people assume she hit first

Quoting &ra ♥ Rome:“ Exactly. I don't know why people assume she hit first”

Plus it totally ruined him in the music and entertaiment industry.

Quoting Marley Ever:“ Plus it totally ruined him in the music and entertaiment industry.”

yeah but in the world we live in ALOT if not most people believe you should never hit a women no matter what, and if he would of pleaded self defense they would of thought it was just a cope out.

Quoting Hayden,Addisyn&Noahs MAMA:“ yeah but in the world we live in ALOT if not most people believe you should never hit a women no matter what, and if he would of pleaded self defense they would of thought it was just a cope out.”

So TRUE. The media is fucked up it use to be our source for good info now its feeds us lies and bullshit.

Quoting Hayden,Addisyn&Noahs MAMA:“ yeah but in the world we live in ALOT if not most people believe you should never hit a women no matter what, and if he would of pleaded self defense they would of thought it was just a cope out.”

It's the same thing if a guy is raped. My husband was raped when he was 18 years old by a 52 year old women. She got him drunk and took advantage of him. He didn't know what happened until morning when he woke up in her bed.

Quoting Trisha (29 weeks):“ It's the same thing if a guy is raped. My husband was raped when he was 18 years old by a 52 year old ... [snip!] ... old women. She got him drunk and took advantage of him. He didn't know what happened until morning when he woke up in her bed.”

Damn thats intense. Just goes to show woman are just as vile as men can be. I never got feminist.

Quoting Marley Ever:“ Damn thats intense. Just goes to show woman are just as vile as men can be. I never got feminist.”

Yup! He of course doesn't talk about it. It's so different for men.

Well I don't think it is okay for a man to hit a woman unless she is threatening his life. If she punches him, he should walk away. That is what a real man would do. Everyone knows (in MOST cases) that men overpower women, they are stronger, etc. So her little punch is nothing compared to his. This is how I was raised. But best believe, if a man hits me first, I'm going to lay his ass out. JMO.

Quoting Amanda-Mommy of 3:“ Well I don't think it is okay for a man to hit a woman unless she is threatening his life. If she punches ... [snip!] ... nothing compared to his. This is how I was raised. But best believe, if a man hits me first, I'm going to lay his ass out. JMO.”

so a girl can wail one a guy and he should walk away? what if she wont let him? if she knows shes weaker she shouldnt hit him first.

I disagree and always will. It's never okay for anyone to hit another person, period. But say I slipped up and slapped him, is he supposed to hit me back because he's a man? NO. I married him b/c even if I slip up and have a fault, it's his duty to not get at my level and retaliate. Somebody always has to be the bigger person.

When my husband and I argue, we don't just argue for days... somebody has to be the bigger person and quit the fighting ya know. Most of the time, the man is almost always going to be stronger. He knows his strength against a woman.