re: Sexually compatible

Quoting Sheena Mac:“ I guess I just have a short attention span lol I don't have the patience for a half hour or more of sex. I can Orgasm 3 or 4 times in that 10mins and then I'm usually tired lol”

Geeeeez. I'm jealous of you, too. I've never had an orgasm from sex alone.  

i know exactly where you're coming from
honestly me and my boyfriend have horrible sex. when we first started it was new and exciting, but we couldn't go very long because i was still pretty new to it, after awhile it kinda turned into the situation with your friend where it's like a chore.
occasionally if we weren't using a condom it was alright, but we can't do that since i stopped taking the pill.
it's a bit sad actually, i really wish i knew how to at least like it, at this point everytime he tries i shriek in pain and he has to stop.
my friends always gripe that i'm being ungrateful because the issue is that he's one of the 45-minute guys, and he's freakishly well-endowed.

i think if you really love someone as a person that's what's important. i mean, there are mountains of sex manuals and techniques out there, it's probably easier to fix bad sex than a bad relationship.

Quoting Rachael!:“ God, I wish I felt that way!! ”

ok, this is gonna be a total naughty comment but you can honestly make that drawn out session your SO likes to do enjoyable. get some flavored lube (strawberry is lovely) and lube up your hoohah, then have your SO give your girly bits a talking to, lol. your mojo will get a decent recharge, your cookie is nice and moist, and your SO will smell like fruit, hahaha  .

Quoting Sheena Mac:“ I guess I just have a short attention span lol I don't have the patience for a half hour or more of sex. I can Orgasm 3 or 4 times in that 10mins and then I'm usually tired lol”

can you teach me how to do this? ha. how long did it take you having sex to be able to do this? im still young and i feel like im just finally figuring out my body and what i like.

Quoting Rachael!:“ Geeeeez. I'm jealous of you, too. I've never had an orgasm from sex alone.  ”

I'm sorry, that must really suck. Before DH I had only ever had 2 orgasms and they were kind of by accident. Now with him I know exactly what to do to make it happen. Before him I slept with plenty, but I don't think I was ever really comfortable or really enjoying it for myself.

Quoting kaitlynsp3919:“ can you teach me how to do this? ha. how long did it take you having sex to be able to do this? im still young and i feel like im just finally figuring out my body and what i like.”

ha as bad as it sounds, it took me quite a few partners to really figure it out. I think a lot of it is just being comfortable. Completely clearing your mind and focusing on the sensation is a big deal. I used to worry about whether the guy was enjoying it and if I was doing this or that. Once I stopped and only started worrying about myself and how I felt it kind of just happened.

Quoting Good Lawd! *FFMB*:“ ok, this is gonna be a total naughty comment but you can honestly make that drawn out session your SO ... [snip!] ... to, lol. your mojo will get a decent recharge, your cookie is nice and moist, and your SO will smell like fruit, hahaha  .”

Yeah, we have all the flavored stuff and he LOVES to go down on me, which is nice. But sometimes I just want a quickie... like, "hey babe, I'm tired, but want to bone. Five minutes, GO!"  

I can't bring myself to have sex with him sometimes just knowing that it's going to take all damn night. lol

Quoting Rachael!:“ Yeah, we have all the flavored stuff and he LOVES to go down on me, which is nice. But sometimes I ... [snip!] ... GO!"   I can't bring myself to have sex with him sometimes just knowing that it's going to take all damn night. lol”

lol! that made me laugh for real, hahahaha    

Quoting Rachael!:“ Yeah, we have all the flavored stuff and he LOVES to go down on me, which is nice. But sometimes I ... [snip!] ... GO!"   I can't bring myself to have sex with him sometimes just knowing that it's going to take all damn night. lol”

well, maybe you should deprive him of booty for a few daysand THEN get your quicky in   oh! and use some lube so your extra slippery. that man should cum in like 5 minutes,   . at least that's how it was for my husband, lol  

Quoting Rachael!:“ Yeah, we have all the flavored stuff and he LOVES to go down on me, which is nice. But sometimes I ... [snip!] ... GO!"   I can't bring myself to have sex with him sometimes just knowing that it's going to take all damn night. lol”

i like all nighters. and middle of the nighters. i cant imagine not enjoying sex. i feel for you 

Quoting kaitlynsp3919:“ i like all nighters. and middle of the nighters. i cant imagine not enjoying sex. i feel for you ”

Yeah, it's lame. I really WANT to enjoy it... lol