What would you do...

Ok...Im married and I love my husband so much. Our marriage isnt perfect and we both could change sooo many things to make it better. I keep telling myself that we have plenty of years to perfect it.
BUT...
I have a guy friend that Im just finding myself SO attracted to him lately...Im finding my mind wandering to him....and I dont know what to do, Im so confused...Please help me!

You have kids with your husband?
Don't do it.

if you love your husband like you say, then don't do it. don't talk to that other guy.

Open relationships are great.

If you really want your marriage to work, remove that guy from your live.

I have a 3 yr old daughter who is mine from a previous relationship...and my husband and I have a 4 month old....

How do I make this feelings go away?? I just want my friend n I to be friends...

If you have something could dont ruin it.

Quoting Audrey♥:“ Ok...Im married and I love my husband so much. Our marriage isnt perfect and we both could change sooo ... [snip!] ... attracted to him lately...Im finding my mind wandering to him....and I dont know what to do, Im so confused...Please help me!”

Get yourself away from that other man. Don't even look that way. Just focus on you and your hubby. Do anything possible not to think about the other dude.

try to work things out with your husband like talk things out and about the guy friend i wouldnt hang out with him as much as i used to

If you are truely happy and in love with your Husband, Stop all connections with this man....
If you are unhappy, and believe that there is no love between you and your husband, than follow your heart.

Quoting Irishewwie:“ Open relationships are great.”

Do u have an open relationship? How does that work? Like swingers?

Quoting Audrey♥:“ I have a 3 yr old daughter who is mine from a previous relationship...and my husband and I have a 4 month old.... How do I make this feelings go away?? I just want my friend n I to be friends...”

by NOT being friends

Quoting Audrey♥:“ Ok...Im married and I love my husband so much. Our marriage isnt perfect and we both could change sooo ... [snip!] ... attracted to him lately...Im finding my mind wandering to him....and I dont know what to do, Im so confused...Please help me!”

I mean, crushes can be harmless and mean you have something you need to work out with your hubby. Maybe think about what attracts you to this guy friend, and try to find that in your husband. If you don't see that in your husband, talk to him about it. It might be fun to fantasize a little bit, but it won't be fun to actually cheat or break up a marriage for it. Y'know. . . for better or worse. . . . this is just one of those worse times. It's normal to have a crush on someone, but it will fade.

Quoting Irishewwie:“ Open relationships are great.”

I wouldn't be able to handle that, ever.

You married him, you took the vowes. If you took them seriously and really love your husband then you should cut off all contact with this other guy and work on your marriage!

You keep saying y'all should work on them, yes you have many years to perfect it but you have to work on it everyday. You shouldn't of gotten married if you're willing to just drop him for some random dude when things get rough. JMHO.