re: What would you do...

Quoting Irishewwie:“ I am in an open relationship and no, not like swingers. With swingers it's a couple sharing each other. ... [snip!] ... dating him now.. It's just something both people in the relationship have to want. And you have to completely trust your SO.”

I've heard of that, but that's insane. I want to be exclusive with my DH.... I wouldn't be able to share...

Quoting Audrey♥:“ Well....I love my husband...he has accepted my daughter and provided for us....and we both are young ... [snip!] ... Im getting so frustrated.... I DO NOT want to have an affair NO WAY...I just dont know how to get these feelings to stop”

tell him to take Viagra

Quoting Audrey♥:“ UH I PICK YOU to talk to! I dont have anyone here I trust.   I love Josh....I hope u know that...but ... [snip!] ... that...but I guess since Im unhappy sexually and Josh is doing the gaming thing its made it easy for my mind to wander....  ”

i told you before and i will tell you again
you can talk to me about anything and everything.
i cant say i know what u mean
but i understand it
and i know you love him

Quoting Irishewwie:“ I am in an open relationship and no, not like swingers. With swingers it's a couple sharing each other. ... [snip!] ... dating him now.. It's just something both people in the relationship have to want. And you have to completely trust your SO.”

wow...is it not hard to do something like this? How did you come to be in relationships like this?

Quoting ©Princess Bitch®:“ i told you before and i will tell you again you can talk to me about anything and everything. i cant say i know what u mean but i understand it and i know you love him”

OMG!!! haha VIagra!! lol I see that conversation ending badly!!! lol

I know...thank you   I just know you and Rob are so happy and I would never want you to think bad of me for having these feelings...  

Quoting Audrey♥:“ wow...is it not hard to do something like this? How did you come to be in relationships like this?”

When I moved to college I sorta went a little crazy. I was messing around with a good friend of mine and he was just using me. A friend of his that he introduced me to was in an open relationship with his wife. He got a crush on me and told me. I wasn't for it at first, but then I got to know him better and he explained everything to me. I finally got rid of the bastard of a guy that was using me and started dating the other guy. It's hard to get used to, but once you are everything's fine. It was actually a huge turn-on...
I'm weird like that.

Quoting Irishewwie:“ When I moved to college I sorta went a little crazy. I was messing around with a good friend of mine ... [snip!] ... other guy. It's hard to get used to, but once you are everything's fine. It was actually a huge turn-on... I'm weird like that.”

 
Now not weird! Everyone is different! WHat ever works for u...so areu just in a relationship or married?

Quoting NATAL!E:“ I've heard of that, but that's insane. I want to be exclusive with my DH.... I wouldn't be able to share...”

I dont think i could live with myseld if i cheated. I think its just bc of the sexual difficulties wefve been havin...

Quoting Audrey♥:“ OMG!!! haha VIagra!! lol I see that conversation ending badly!!! lol I know...thank you   I just ... [snip!] ... you   I just know you and Rob are so happy and I would never want you to think bad of me for having these feelings...  ”

our marriage isnt always cupcakes and rainbows
ahhh messages me on here or myspace

Quoting Audrey♥:“ I didnt say i wanted to drop my husband....Im wanting to work on our marriage...i just asked how to ... [snip!] ... or if anyone has felt like this and how they handled it.... I love my hubby And I dont want to loose my friend either....”

In order to get rid of those feelings you have to cut this guy out of your life. If there are things you want to work on with dh, talk to him about it and make an effort (both of you) to fix the problems. Your husband is more important than this friend.

Maybe you can tell your husband to cut back on the xbox and work on some quality time for the two of you, and there are tons of toys and creams to spice up your sex life! (pure romance has some great stuff) Just be honest with him and I'm sure y'all can work things out!

Quoting ©Princess Bitch®:“ our marriage isnt always cupcakes and rainbows ahhh messages me on here or myspace”

ok doll

Quoting Ashley{{Carters mommy}}:“ In order to get rid of those feelings you have to cut this guy out of your life. If there are things ... [snip!] ... to spice up your sex life! (pure romance has some great stuff) Just be honest with him and I'm sure y'all can work things out!”

thank you!!
I actually thought about trying to have like a sex toy party with some girlfriends and get some goodies for us to try!!

Quoting Audrey♥:“   Now not weird! Everyone is different! WHat ever works for u...so areu just in a relationship or married?”

We're just in a relationship right now. We've been dating for 2 years on Dec. 27.   But we are going to get married once we are living a better place and have more money.

Quoting Irishewwie:“ We're just in a relationship right now. We've been dating for 2 years on Dec. 27.   But we are going to get married once we are living a better place and have more money.”

will u still have an open relationship after marriage?

Quoting Audrey♥:“ thank you!! I actually thought about trying to have like a sex toy party with some girlfriends and get some goodies for us to try!!”

No problem =]
Or you could go to the pure romance website (or a sex toy website) and look at it together! That's what my husband and I do.. We look through it and talk about the ones we would like to try and then order what we want together =] It's an awesome way to get a chance to talk about things you wanna try in the bedroom without it being weird! And you can always start out small and/or simple and work your way up when you get more comfortable. I would recommend a small clit vibrator, those are awesome and might speed things up a little bit for you! And pure romance has this x-screamstuff(something along those lines) it's a cream that you put on your clit and it makes you more sensitive.