ATT. To all ladies who ask their husbands permisson to leave

Okay,maybe its just me or maybe its not just me....but this really bugs the shit out of me!I am an armywife and proud.Its the toughest job in the Army ask any Armywife.We bust our asses for our husbands,making sure their uniforms are washed,making sure we go to all the mettings,all the lame dinners,all the pointless social events.Learning all the Army Lingo.So why in the hell are we supposed to ask our husbands permisson to the leave the fucking house....?!!!No joke I have some friends that will not leave the house without altering their husbands exactly where they all are going.Even if its to their friends house?Texting them is not enough but calling them to make sure its okay?Like really what r we in high school again where we have to ask.I dont know about you ladies but I dont have to ask my husband to go anywhere and tell him exactly where I am going ..I would be there all day.

I do, but I always know exactly where he is too.

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we're not Army. He's former USMC

I dont have to ask permission to go out.. just tell him where im going. He has a right to know.

i ask my husband, and he asks me before he goes, Kind of just a mutual respect that either wont be going anywhere the other doesn't approve of. Not in the marriage alone.

Quoting *Ava Grace's Mommy*:“ Okay,maybe its just me or maybe its not just me....but this really bugs the shit out of me!I am an armywife ... [snip!] ... you ladies but I dont have to ask my husband to go anywhere and tell him exactly where I am going ..I would be there all day.”

most military men are insecure so they want to know what your doing and when lol god forbid you leave without saying something, your probably out banging someone else lol

I want my husband to know where I am cause I dont want him to worry. I worry if I dont know where he is. Some people live by other rules though, and have different relationships with their husbands...not sure what this has to do with the military though.

im not army but i dont ask permission either, but neither does he.. we just go, but we both know where were at and we do check in with eachother if were gonna b gone for hrs at a time :-)

Crazy, I dont know why women think they need permission like they are asking their parents.. I tell my husband where I am going, and thats that.

The only reason I say anything is in case for some reason he needs me to do something else in stead. I dont ask permission, I say "I'm wanting to do this and this. Is that alright or do you need me for something else?"

Im not saying I never tell my husband where I am going I mean just like EVER PLACE like say I am going to Walmart ,and then the Dollar store and then the PX , Imean some wives take it to the extreme of telling them exactly what the hell they are going to buy and everything...its like that cant take a shit without their husbands knowing.My husband knows where I go its just I dont tell him every flipping store I am going to or I ask him if I can leave the house some women need to grow up and get a backbone

Im not saying I never tell my husband where I am going I mean just like EVER PLACE like say I am going to Walmart ,and then the Dollar store and then the PX , Imean some wives take it to the extreme of telling them exactly what the hell they are

Quoting Kim [team blue]:“ most military men are insecure so they want to know what your doing and when lol god forbid you leave without saying something, your probably out banging someone else lol”

I dont think they are insecure, its kinda ingrained in their heads though. I mean my husband got it in boot camp, that I was cheating on him, and they didnt say it nicely. I mean they have a saying.....trust them with your money, trust them with your life, never trust them with your wife. (talking about their own buddies) I can see where you would get a little worried.

i tell my SO sometimes I ask .. just out ofmutualrespect ... to see if he had plans ... but most of the time i just leave and i telhimwhereI'mgoing and heisn'tin the service !

Im not saying I never tell my husband where I am going I mean just like EVER PLACE like say I am going to Walmart ,and then the Dollar store and then the PX , Imean some wives take it to the extreme of telling them exactly what the hell they are going to buy and everything...its like that cant take a shit without their husbands knowing.My husband knows where I go its just I dont tell him every flipping store I am going to or I ask him if I can leave the house some women need to grow up and get a backbone

I would never ask permission to leave, however a heads up would be nice.

If the roles were reversed the majority of women would flip out if their man left without telling them.