Worried...

Ok so almost all the time when i don't hear from my SO, i get worried...
i go back n forth in my mind thinking bad thoughts, but than i try to think positive...
not like bad thoughts, trust issues, i'm talking about him getting locked up, killed, or just like the possible worst...
i think mainly why i think like this, is because around my area he's had several friends get killed and his brother was shot last febuary...
i just can't help to think that something like that could happen at any moment to any one of us...
i just get so scared and worried all the time...i know he can handle his own..but it's just it could happen ya know...

do any of you ladies get worried about ur SO like this? if so, how do you cope?

It depends on how long of a period you are talking about-- an hour, 3 hours, a day?

If its awhile after he should have gotten off work, yeah. But he forgets to text me most of the time when he goes with this friends to the bar after work. I figure, he works two jobs and by the end of the night he is tired. I would forget too! lol

Quoting My♥MyEverything:“ Ok so almost all the time when i don't hear from my SO, i get worried... i go back n forth in my mind ... [snip!] ... own..but it's just it could happen ya know... do any of you ladies get worried about ur SO like this? if so, how do you cope?”

I call him a ridiculous amount of times. If he takes too long going somewhere I worry, and call him and ask "What's taking you so long?!"

Quoting xboo1111x *YGB*:“ It depends on how long of a period you are talking about-- an hour, 3 hours, a day?”

it just depends..like if he's gone a day or two that really freaks me the fuck out..but like if i know he's supposed to be off work and he's not answering his phone, my mind fills with thoughts very quickly...

Yea, I think it all the time.. The area you are in isn't the best so I can understand. My husband works out in Wheaton and I hear about shit all the time around there, so I get worried..

But mine isn't trust worries. I freak out thinking he might be in a car wreck. I am so afraid of that happening just because he was in a bad one before he cracked his skull..and the next one he might not be so lucky. Then I keep refreshing the news website seeing if any wrecks pop up. I need to stop.

Quoting My♥MyEverything:“ it just depends..like if he's gone a day or two that really freaks me the fuck out..but like if i know ... [snip!] ... like if i know he's supposed to be off work and he's not answering his phone, my mind fills with thoughts very quickly...”

I mean if my husband was gone a day or two I'd be pretty freaked out.. I would be calling hospitals and everywhere else I could think of. If he's a few hours late I don't worry though, we don't have cell phones so he can't call me to tell me if he's going to a friends or something.

Quoting xboo1111x *YGB*:“ I mean if my husband was gone a day or two I'd be pretty freaked out.. I would be calling hospitals ... [snip!] ... late I don't worry though, we don't have cell phones so he can't call me to tell me if he's going to a friends or something.”

yea he usually doesn't do that...but once in a blue he tends to...i've done that before coz i was so worried..i called police, hospitals, practically all his friends...yea that's the reason i have a cell only for when i go out or emergencies..

Quoting Sam I am ♥:“ But mine isn't trust worries. I freak out thinking he might be in a car wreck. I am so afraid of that ... [snip!] ... the next one he might not be so lucky. Then I keep refreshing the news website seeing if any wrecks pop up. I need to stop.”

i don't have trust worries..it's just bad thought worries..i can understand that, i would be worried too!

Quoting Frederick is HERE!!!:“ Yea, I think it all the time.. The area you are in isn't the best so I can understand. My husband works out in Wheaton and I hear about shit all the time around there, so I get worried..”

yea it's not bad, especially in my neighborhood..but where most of his friends are(chill spots) are where i get worried, because thats where most of everything happens...

I have those same thoughts. I just got shot this year in February and ever since then I have been really paranoid about all kinds of things happening and I am always worrying.
I wonder if he's gotten into a wreck or gotten stopped and arrested because he has unpaid tickets.
And the thing that sucks the most is I have a cell phone but he doesn't so anything can happen and I wouldn't know because he can't call me.
I always start stressing when he's late coming home.

Quoting A.Trevino:“ I have those same thoughts. I just got shot this year in February and ever since then I have been really ... [snip!] ... so anything can happen and I wouldn't know because he can't call me. I always start stressing when he's late coming home.”

u got shot?!?...
i used to be in the same boat..when SO didn't have his cell..i would go crazy n call all his friends...but they understood..i mean i did worry before i had our child but even more after because i don't want my child to be without her father...

what part of columbia do you live in because i live in a bad part too. you can pm me if you like.

in my opinion if ur living in any area like that n ur that worried u should consider moving..u hav a baby now n im sure u want u n ya SO to grow old with ya gorgeous baby girl!..yes i kno no1 has money 2 just dish out quick n fast but determination will get u there!