bad parenting

So I am completely okay with people who formula feed its all your choice. but what really aggitates me is the people who decide that instead of breastfeeding they are going to just ff their child. Just so they can go out and party. my friend who, mind you, is two years older than me is going out basically everynight and getting drunk with her husband while she pawns off her kid to her mom. Its one thing to go out every once in a while but to just go out and get f'd up on acid/ectasy/weed/booze, you name it she has done. I just feel so bad for her son. She has called me multiple times while she is high off her ass and watching her son. if you cant even think properly let alone stand on your own, you shouldnt be caring for a child.
ugh its just sooo freaking irritating. i just wish she would stop acting like a child and grow the fuck up.

i am an exclusive extended breastfeeder
but
I think its better than them bfing fucked up. If they lack the ability to control themselves, and need to go out and party. It is probably better that they ff

  Poor kid. I'd be more concerned about her watching her kid while in that condition. Sounds like he's better off while he's at grandma's house.

So what, you want us all to agree with you that some woman we've never met that we're taking your word for is a bad parent?

I don't think so.

C.

I don't think formula feeding is the real issue at hand here.

Quoting xboo1111x *YGB*:“ I don't think formula feeding is the real issue at hand here.”

 

you need to call social services on her ass!! Friend or no friend, that child is unsafe being watched by someone who is fucked up. That poor baby might be going hungry or sick and it's momma doesn't even know b/c she is to fucked up. That child is better of elsewhere!!

Quoting Julian's Wife:“   Poor kid. I'd be more concerned about her watching her kid while in that condition. Sounds like he's better off while he's at grandma's house.”

thing is, they live at her mothers house. her husband cant support them. and she isnt willing to get a job. from what she has told me, her son is constantly crying and is a "bad kid" i truly dont think he is a bad child i just think she is a bad mother
i know that is mean but her son is only a couple months old and is already going out all the time to party and etc.

why not call DHR?

Why aren't you calling CPS if she's in that state watching her child?

Quoting God:“ So what, you want us all to agree with you that some woman we've never met that we're taking your word for is a bad parent? I don't think so. C.”

no im not expecting you to agree i just really needed to vent   sorry

Quoting ☮ Lynleigh's mommy:“ why not call DHR?”

DHR?

Quoting Cadens Mommy:“ Why aren't you calling CPS if she's in that state watching her child?”

i would i just dont know if they will take my word for it. she lives about 5 hours away from where i do

Quoting Tabi Cat:“ i would i just dont know if they will take my word for it. she lives about 5 hours away from where i do”

I'm sure if you told them that she was watching her child while under the influence of drugs they would look into it.

It is her choice.