re: Preparing for Baby...what should I have?

definatly loads of diapers and baby wipes and clothes !!

my wipe warmer dryed out my wipes so i didn't use it much i loved those johnson and johnson wipes that already have the baby soap in it it was a lifesaver for me being a nervous mom on the first bath its so much easier! and you can use it on their head and hair too.

My must-haves...
carseat
sling
mei tai
nursing pads / nursing bra
cloth diapers / cloth wipes
potty for ec'ing
clothes
That's about it.

I had everything when I had my son and found only a few things were neccessary for me, so I limited what I bought this time around.

*Gentle Naturals Tummy Soothers
*Gas drops
*suppositories
*onesies
*sleepers
*large, soft blankets
*diaper rash ointment
*tylenol

I had a brand new swing with my son and never used it. He would rather sleep lying down or being held, so I marked that off this time. I never had a wipe warmer as I heard they dry your wipes out, but I would not know for sure. I just marked it as not neccessary. I even did not use a crib with my son although I had a very nice expensive one so I marked that off this time and opted for a twin matrress and box springs on the floor so baby does not fall far if she should fall (never been a problem with my son). The only things I found useful were those things that baby pushes when they are learning to walk.

Sorry this is a long list but i thought it could help 


Clothing Your Baby
Onesies
Sleepers and/or gowns
Socks
Hats
Sweaters
Snowsuit bag

Bathing Your Baby
Baby tub
Baby toiletries
Baby washcloths
Baby bath towels

Carrying Your Baby
Front carrier, sling, and/or backpack

Breastfeeding Your Baby
Boppy (or other nursing pillow) and cover
Breast pump
Breast milk storage and feeding set
Insulated carrying case for transporting milk safely

Bottle-Feeding Your Baby
Bottles
Assorted nipples
Utensils for formula preparation
Sterilizer, if recommended
Formula
Bottle and nipple brush

Feeding Your Baby
Highchair
Bibs
Baby utensils
Food mill, for grinding up food for baby
Plates and bowls

Soothing Your Baby
Receiving blankets (for swaddling)
Pacifiers
Swing

Taking Your Baby Places
Diaper bag
Wipes carrying case
Car seat
Stroller

Disposable-Diapering Your Baby
Disposable diapers
Disposable wipes
Diaper rash cream

Putting Your Baby to Bed
Co-sleeper and/or bed rails (if you plan to co-sleep)
Crib
Sheets and accessories for co-sleeper and/or crib
Portable crib
Waterproof crib pads

Baby-Proofing Supplies
Although you won't need this stuff right away, it's a good idea to baby-proof before baby is mobile, so you don't have to go rushing around at the last minute.
Outlet covers
Baby gates
Door latches
Toilet latch
Non-slip tub mat
Padding for sharp table edges
Doorknob guards
Stove knob guards

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TYLENOL
THERMOMETER

Hello Everyone!! You all have helped me sooo much without even knowing it. Im about to have my first and I feel like Im not doing to good. Im kinda worried that Im not prepared or will be able to be prepared for my first Son. My wife and Idon't much nor will we when he comes either. I was just curious to know what you think I should do. I dont want to seem scared because I want to be strong, for my wife and myself. We have clothes but thats about it. So any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Also there wouldnt be anyway for a possible baby shower either because were moving and we wouldnt be knowing any nor have family available for support.
p.s. I hope nobody thinks im wierd for posting on this site as a male I just really need another womans perspective on this and I cant bring up my insecurity of failing to my wife without imposing that on her. Thanks again A PROUD FATHER  

Quoting Miracle Maker:“ Hello Everyone!! You all have helped me sooo much without even knowing it. Im about to have my first ... [snip!] ... on this and I cant bring up my insecurity of failing to my wife without imposing that on her. Thanks again A PROUD FATHER  ”

Good luck, Proud Father! We are here for you. I know deep down inside my husband is scared out of his mind. When we go to the doctor he always is the one asking all the questions, I can hardly get a word in! Don't worry, you are not alone! We are all worried about being good parents and being prepared! Take care!

Car seat, lots of receiving blankets.

I have gotten so much stuff for my first child, I've gotten lots of clothes, bathroom stuff, blankets, pacifiers, diapers.

muslin squares (i don't know what you call them out there) you can use them as a burping cloth, these are perfect for cleaning up any feeding spills as well...if any of you are having boys, some face cloth or muslin squares just to put on his little thing as soon as you take his nappy off, cause they tend to pee in your face x

Quoting baby boy on board:“ okay a lot of you are saying diapers and wipes. is there a certain brand that is better than the others. also, i've heard that the wipe warmers just dry out the wipes. has anyone had this problem yet?”

Well I havent had my baby yet but my mom used them with my lilttle brother when he was a baby and he is now nine years old lol so they have been out for awhile. But hers never dried out. I think u just have to make sure and keep them tightly shut. Alot of people dont close them all the way and that why!!

1st thing i already got was a little snow outfit.. he will be born when there is snow on the ground, so that was my first nessesity.

Quoting skomula:“ do we absolutely have to have scratch mittens? Because I've been thinking about them non stop for like a week, and I remembered that I didn't put them on my registry...oops.”

Yes you have to have them... The babies always scratch them selfs on the face, and u dont want your little baby running around with scars in his or her face...

Quoting amberly_rose:“ 1st thing i already got was a little snow outfit.. he will be born when there is snow on the ground, so that was my first nessesity.”

They also make clothing that has scratch mittins kind of built in. Try looking for them at babies R Us. I saw some there. It's nice because you fold them back if you dont want to use them.

Just a few lil thing to have is a crib or bassinet. a few lil light type toys you know the ones that make music and have lights. also clothes, don't get to many clothes they are going to grow out of them fast. have diper alot and I mean a lot and have at least the first 3 sizes of dipers cuz you never know how fast they will grow.blinkets you need blinkets at least 3 if not more I suggest more becuse you never know when they are going to throw up. well that just a few to help some of you out.