***A VERY HAPPY UPDATE***

so as most of you know my 14 year old sister is pregnant and decided to keep the baby and NOT finish school...well got a phone call and my sister has decided to give the baby up for adoption..my mother is taking her to an adoption agency in a few weeks to talk about the process...i cant help but be happy she is going to bless someone very much..i hope she doesnt change her mind..but she seems pretty set on it..

Thats wonderful. That was my favorite episode of 16 and pregnant to be honest. I think it's a really smart choice, and I believe you have to be a very strong person to do it

I'm glad she's making the right decision.

I'm glad she's making the right decision.

Best of luck to her   I know you're relieved she's being mature.

thanks mamas ill keep everyone updated   i cant stop smiling!! is it rude of me to want to be there when she goes to the agencies

Well that's great news! I hope everything works out and the baby goes to a loving couple

Quoting M.I.L.FX2{BBM}:“ thanks mamas ill keep everyone updated   i cant stop smiling!! is it rude of me to want to be there when she goes to the agencies”

It's not rude to want to, it would be rude to go if she expressly asked you not to  
I would probably want to go with, too.

Quoting M.I.L.FX2{BBM}:“ thanks mamas ill keep everyone updated   i cant stop smiling!! is it rude of me to want to be there when she goes to the agencies”

I don' t think so. You are her sister you want to offer support. That is really great news. What a blessing this babywill be to some couple.

Quoting PotatoHead:“ It's not rude to want to, it would be rude to go if she expressly asked you not to   I would probably want to go with, too.”

she hasnt asked me to go or told me not to..i was just thinking about asking her if it would be ok if i came along just for support not to judge or anything..im sure this is going to be really hard on her

Quoting M.I.L.FX2{BBM}:“ she hasnt asked me to go or told me not to..i was just thinking about asking her if it would be ok if ... [snip!] ... her if it would be ok if i came along just for support not to judge or anything..im sure this is going to be really hard on her”

I would just ask her if she felt she needed you there for support. That way she doesn't feel bad about saying no. Good luck! It will be a huge day for all of you no matter what.

That's great you guys are there to support her. It will help her through that really hard decision!

There is a Birth Mom support thread in the ttc & adoption forums.