feeling a little hopeless

so, i am starting to see that TTC is harder than i thought! I've been TTC for basically 3 months and thought i was going to be late this time because i've had no signs of my period however, it came about an hour ago and although it wasn't the same as usual...(far lighter than the rest and no brown discharge)...i just thought this month might be it?! And everything i have read has said for a normal couple it takes 6-8 months, but im a worrier so in the back of my mind i feel as though it's never going to happen and maybe something is wrong??

I don't know if this means anything, but it took my mom and dad like 8-9 months to get pregnant with me and my fiance's parents have seven children. I dont know if any of that means a single thing what so ever, but yea.

pretty bummed today.

Quoting Lauren Wants A Boy:“ so, i am starting to see that TTC is harder than i thought! I've been TTC for basically 3 months and ... [snip!] ... parents have seven children. I dont know if any of that means a single thing what so ever, but yea. pretty bummed today.”

sorry hunni  

somtimes it just takes a while. with my first it took us almost 3 years. and then this one 1 month! keep your head up  

Thank you!