re: VENT!

Quoting Jessica♥L&O:“ He bitches about them constantly but he kissed their ass all the time. They haven't seen our son since ... [snip!] ... That and because I stopped going to their church. He pisses me off so much. I am about sick of this back stabbing family.”

all i can say is your never gonna change the situation if you don't confront it... i would catch it before it comes between you and your husband... you don't have to be me just very factual and very punctual.

Quoting xLovIn_LifEx:“ all i can say is your never gonna change the situation if you don't confront it... i would catch it ... [snip!] ... i would catch it before it comes between you and your husband... you don't have to be me just very factual and very punctual.”

Oh I have confronted the issues. But for people they don't even care about their son or their grandchildren he sure sticks up for them because, "They were here first"

Okay my family took his ass in when he had no place to live cause his mom picked her husband over him, we helped him with everything but we get treated like crap and they get their feet kissed.

why don't you tell him that.... throw some bible at him if he wants to play the christian card... like the husband leaves his mom and dad and shall "cling" to his wife. blah blah blah men are suppost to be the providers and protecters of the family... where's your protection the 2 of you are suppost to be "as one" sounds like your fighting this battle by yourself.... where's the christian in him coming out??

Quoting Jessica♥L&O:“ I should of known though. His family is a bunch of "saints and God's people" around other people but ... [snip!] ... doors, they call people whores, they "Fuck this and fuck that" constantly and they do stuff they PREACH you shouldn't. Grrr...”

Oh how lovely! I love people like that  

Quoting xLovIn_LifEx:“ why don't you tell him that.... throw some bible at him if he wants to play the christian card... like ... [snip!] ... you are suppost to be "as one" sounds like your fighting this battle by yourself.... where's the christian in him coming out??”

I am.

His family drops him like hot potatoes for their new husbands/wives. They moved him to his grandparents house because he couldn't get along with his step parents. His father treats his stepson like a son and his real son like shit. He don't acknowledge his 'other family' with his first wife but my husband sits there and yells at me because of some stupid quiz???

Ugh. I am so pissed I am shaking.

awe it'll be okay...

I hadan issue with my inlaws about that....I get along with them fine butI will leave updates about being pissed off and they are generic comments that could be about work, school or my own family but my mil will take is as i am either mad at her or my husband....omg then she will talk to my husband 'whats wrong with holly?'
or like last weekend i wanted to take my husband to a local strip club since neither of us have been to one...and i left an update about checking out chicks and wanting to buy him a dance....
well his dad calls the next morning,askingif we went, inwhich we didn't my hubbers feltsick. he continues to say that he could loose his securtiy clearance if i post stuff like that online....ummm no I am training to be an FSO(security clearance processor) and I know that is a pile of you know what..
his mom and sis prolly complained andmy fil saw that as a way to shut the two of them up....

i love my inlaws but they need to realize that lifes not all about them....