Sexual Abuse Support Thread.

****YOU SO NOT HAVE TO SHARE YOUR STORY!!*****

[I understand there was another abuse thread, but it died. I made a new one instead of waiting for other people to join an old bumped topic. =) ]

This thread is for support for people who have gone through sexual abuse, going through sexual abuse and needing advice to get help, or if their children have been sexually abused, and they need support.


I am a survivor of Child sexual abuse.

You do not have to share your story, you do not have to talk about it.

But I encourage you to do so.

I am willing to post my story at any time if anyone wants to feel comfort that someone in this thread is willing to put it all out there.

Give each other support.

We're all survivors.

Ahh I really need this thread right now...

nvm 

I am also a survivor of sexual abuse

Quoting Creeper*IAAL**OLS*:“ Jut thought I would let you know...There is already a sexual abuse thread...I can get the link for you if you want  I am also a survivor of sexual abuse”

Yeah I was apart of it, but it died.

I requested to make a new one and keep it alive.

I am a survivor. I"ll post soon

Im a survivor. I was sexually abused in my Sunday School room when i was 5 by a total stranger.

Quoting Listerfiend:“ Yeah I was apart of it, but it died. I requested to make a new one and keep it alive.”

Oh ok 

That is a good idea though

I have never been abused, but my best friend was just recently raped.

You all feel free to post your stories if you want.

I know going through mine, made it a lot easier to deal with.

I'm pretty much okay with the things that have happened to me now. It's just that my husband has this thing about I'm his wife & he should be able to touch me however he wants, whenever he wants. I hate telling him to stop & he just keeps grabbing me. I tell him how it makes me feel & he gets mad saying I'm comparing him to a pedophile. It's been really driving me crazy the last two days.

Quoting Jfer's Is A Mommy:“ I'm pretty much okay with the things that have happened to me now. It's just that my husband has this ... [snip!] ... makes me feel & he gets mad saying I'm comparing him to a pedophile. It's been really driving me crazy the last two days.”

This is the problem I kind of had at home.

I was sexually abused by my father, and I grew up in that house hold. So there was always this sexual pressure in the house. I always had an escape plan routed in my head, and I always had this; "Hide everything wear baggy clothes." Attitude.

When I got married and moved out, I went from wanting to bang my husband to sexually shutting down.

Eventually after the divorce, I moved on, obviously.

And I just now put two and two together.
I make up this sexual tension this pressure in my home, because thats how it was in my home growing up.
When I told my partner about it, he understood. [As he is too a survivor.]

Try to explain it to him, its not that he is a pedophile its that you have subconcious memories of how it happened, and his actions make them come to light.

my brother started molesting me when i was 7. touching and stuff. he'd always say it was ok and dont tell mom or dad cause i would get in trouble, not him. then around 9 he started getting more into it, touching my vag, making me touch him, etc. once i got my period at 11 i told him to stop. he tried once in the kitchen when i was 12 but i smacked him in the face.

i'm 27 now and still dont forgive him. he fucked up my childhood.

Quoting Listerfiend:“ This is the problem I kind of had at home. I was sexually abused by my father, and I grew up in that ... [snip!] ... not that he is a pedophile its that you have subconcious memories of how it happened, and his actions make them come to light.”

I thought this would help but I'm already so stressed about trying to tell him without offending him. I'll come back to the thread later.  

Thanks.

I was sexually abused when I was 14 years old!
When I was 14 years old I was walking home from summer school and a guy came outside and he was asking mehave I seen his daughter and I was like no and he said he didnt hear me so I walked closer to him and told him no as I tried to walk away he grabbed me and started snatching me in the house..All I could do is scream..When he finally got me in the house I was trying everything to get out of the house I knocked down pictures,pulled down curtains so he grabbed me by my hair and snatched me in the room..I was soo freaked out and begging him not to hurt mehe told me if I made another sound he would cut me to pieces and he pulled out the knife..He told me to lay down and I wouldnt so he pushed me on the bed and started snatching my panties off(I had on a skirt that day)..So Im trying everything to get him before he stuck his you know what in me..But I guess I wasn't strong enough.He stuck his penis in and I screamed then he held my arms back and................................ugh..After a while I finally got the strength and pushed him off me and he hit the dresser so I had enough time to get out the house..I just ran until I couldn't anymore ppl was asking me was I okay I just wanted to get home to my momma..When I finally got home my mother was standing outside and she was asking me what was wrong and I told her and she seen blood so she quickly called the cops and ambulances I described him down to his tattoo on his chest when they got to his house he was balled up in his closet hiding..He got 15 years( I think)..Til this day I know it was my fault and my cousin blames himself because he was suppose to come get me from school that day but forgot..But it isn't his it was mines..I shouldn't have walked to him..He took my virginity...Everyday I think about this happening tome and I am so scared that when he gets out he will be looking for me.I never understood why he did this to me because he was married.

Quoting Loved By The Best♥:“ I was sexually abused when I was 14 years old! When I was 14 years old I was walking home from summer ... [snip!] ... I am so scared that when he gets out he will be looking for me.I never understood why he did this to me because he was married.”

I dont see how it was your fault, at all.

He was just a bad person looking to hurt someone, its not your fault that happened to you.