re: I told him...

I hate this jack person....he is never there and tells you all these horrible things about not wanting your babies...then does a complete 180?

I dont think so....you did your best with what you had and should feel ashamed about nothing.

bridget, you listen to me! you are NOT a horrible person. he made his bed and now he is pissed off you made him sleep in it. it is not your fault he said he wanted out and to be left alone. its his. i guaranty you he is more mad at himself then he is at you. don't you feel bad. at all, not for a minute. you have enough on your plate without worrying about that ass. And you have not yet, not once screwed up yours or little lydia's lives.

Bridget, YOU ARE NOT A HORRIBLE PERSON!! I have read all your post and have been by your side, even though I'm not there in person. I know everything that Happened to you Lydia, and the twins and Jack.
He didn't want anything to do with his babies. Ignore him I know it's hard and i'm not in your situation. But think about Lydia which in the most important person in your life. You need to be strong for her.

jack's an asshole. if anything, this should only confirm your decision to leave him. you made the right decision, not calling him. the twins deserved peace and love in the few precious hours, not jack and his crazy mixed emotions . you're the best mom ever, you always put your children first no matter what.

You didn't do ANYTHING wrong! He didn't want anything to do with them, hasn't seen Lydia in over a month... how were you supposed to know!? You weren't! Keep your head up lady.

Quoting Bridget&Lydia:“ he told me he didn't want the twins, how was I suppose to know??”

You did nothing wrong, hes just being an asshole! You we're just respecting his wishes and now he says your in the wrong, hes not worth the hurt hun.. You are not a horrible person, he is for walking out on you when things got hard!

He was being an ass you don't listen to him, he told you he didn't want the twins, he left you to fend for yourself with Lydia. Don't you dare feel bad he brought that on himself.