fiance lives in fort hood

so i spent the whole day freaking out about the shooting and i knew he was ok because i was talking to him.. but now he is home and doesnt wanna talk and i feel bad for going off on him i mean 12 ppl were just killed on his base. but i want him to talk to me so he feels better but i guess not...=/

sorry needed to vent

Poor people.  

im sure hes been through alot today... give him space he will talk when hes ready

I'm sorry mama  
He will talk to you when he is ready though... a lot has happened today and guys sometimes don't deal with things like this like women do. Just give him some time and be thankful that he is ok.

my prayers go out to them & their families

Quoting Aleahs Mommy {BBM}:“ im sure hes been through alot today... give him space he will talk when hes ready”

 

Quoting Lillyana's mommy*:“ so i spent the whole day freaking out about the shooting and i knew he was ok because i was talking to ... [snip!] ... ppl were just killed on his base. but i want him to talk to me so he feels better but i guess not...=/ sorry needed to vent”

I understand, but these kinda things have to be delt with on their time... he might just be in too much shock to talk about it tonight.... but maybe in a few days or weeks or months!! Just remind him that your there for him and when or if he's ever ready to talk about it you'll be there for him!! Thats about all you can do at this point!! Support him, love him, and show him that he matters!

im so worried about him.. he said he isnt going anywhere without his gun this weekend.. and im moving there in january.

Quoting Lillyana's mommy*:“ im so worried about him.. he said he isnt going anywhere without his gun this weekend.. and im moving there in january.”

Aww he sounds really freaked out! Poor guy! Just thank your lucky stars he wasn't one of the 12 killed or 31 injured!

ohh im soooo thankful! freaks me the fuck out though cause shit happens there all the time. i told him we need to move somewhere else

I know you do, but maybe he just needs some him time right now. Do not push it he has been through alot today I am sure. I am sure he will talk when he is ready and not so overwhelmed. sorry momma