VENT: Haylen's father is a prick.

Update for you all, since I haven't been keeping you ladies in the loop:

Ileft Hay's father, Cody. He's got a bad attitude, doesn't help out with anything, and thinks the world revolves around him. Doesn't surprise me really.. we are young, and we did move our relationship quickly.

Well, we were getting along decently- but he's becoming ruder and ruder every single hour. I decided to file for custody of Haylen (because his family is nuts, and I'm starting to think he is as well).

We live in my father's house, and Cody is completely unappreciate. He's disrespectful. Even slammed a door in my Daddy's face. I decided I wanted Cody gone, before he took his anger out on any of us, especially Haylen. So we're going to tell him to leave soon.

Anyhow: Just now, Haylen was screaming.. and I've had her since 5 this morning. I asked him to get her. And he asked "Why?". "Wow, really Cody?, she's screaming." And his response? "I don't give a fuck. Not that she's crying, not about you, her, or any fucking thing else."

Wow.
This.. is my life?
Screw him.

I'd skip the waiting and tell him to GTFO right now.

Yup... Id be kicking his ass to the curb ASAP!

Stay strong mama!

Quoting moo *MilkFactory* moo:“ I'd skip the waiting and tell him to GTFO right now.”

I would too.
OP: Just b/c you are young doesnt mean you dont deserve his respect. He should love you & his baby if he doesnt he needs to leave.

Quoting moo *MilkFactory* moo:“ I'd skip the waiting and tell him to GTFO right now.”

I told him to leave! And you know what he did? LAUGHED. Ha. He's so rude.

start throwing his shit out the door NOW!!!

Wow I would kick him out this minute. He doesn't deserve to live with you and I am sure you and Haylen deserve a shit ton better.

Quoting k.vail:“ Update for you all, since I haven't been keeping you ladies in the loop: Ileft Hay's father, Cody. ... [snip!] ... give a fuck. Not that she's crying, not about you, her, or any fucking thing else." Wow. This.. is my life? Screw him.”

his ass needs to leave NOW! tonight, not tomorrow morning.. kick him out on his ass with no place to go in the middle of the night. SCREW HIM!

update us!!!

Quoting *Sara Nicole*:“ update us!!!”

I just found out his mom called my dad today. She used to live with us but we caught her doing coke with her friends while babysitting, so we kicked her out. Ever since she's been really hostile, saying that I'm a terrible mother, and that she's going to call social services, and how I need to put Haylen up for adoption cause I'm a dirty slut. Haha.

Well, apparently, she told my dad today that I was trying to make her lose her job, and how i don't do shit. Yadda yadda. Basically, she said she was going to beat me up (lol) and that she was going to take Haylen from me. HA.

Damn, they sound ridiculous. Let me tell you, my (now) boyfriend was a total DOUCHEBAG for the first eight months of Violette's life. I didn't live with him though. I say if he's in your father's house, he needs to pack his shit up and go. Is he really comfortable with your family, and that's why he laughed at you when you told him to leave? As for his mother...some people never grow up   Good luck!

Tell him to GTFO and if he doesnt listen just let your dad at him! My dad wouldbeat the shit out of my SO if he acted towards me! Throw all his crap out to the curb tell him if he wants it back in to go and get it, then when he goes out to get it lock up the house, and if he breaks in call the cops!

Quoting Felicia.Marie:“ his ass needs to leave NOW! tonight, not tomorrow morning.. kick him out on his ass with no place to go in the middle of the night. SCREW HIM!”

AGREED!

damn girl! I'd be sooooooooooo pissed. yeah kicking him out is easier said then done. that sucks. my boyfriends a weiner wad too, but we dont live together, but he does help with Halen when hes here or when Im at his house. Im sorry, yeah you'd be way better off without that dick head.