If they asked me specifically for help I'd tell them to fuck off. There's a bunch of people in this world they could go to before me. If I saw them like fallen hurt on the street I'd help them as much as I could. I'd do that for anyone in any situation.

Quoting God:“ Same. I have trouble saying no to people, heh. C.”

So....can you buy me a 1976 Corvette?

LOL

If they had kids, and they needed help id help the KIDS. i guess it depends on what they did. i dont really hate anyone, i strongly STRONGLY dislike a FEW people, and if they needed help id tell them to shove off. Honestly.

id rather give my help to someone who i could give two shits about LOL.

Maybe 5 years ago I would not have answered the same. I would most likely help anyone if I had the power and resources to do so.

Quoting Emma♥Ethan:“ Think about someone you really dislike, or maybe even hate. Think about all the shitty things they may ... [snip!] ... that, because if I can't honestly forgive someone and forget our differences, how can I expect the same out of anyone else?”

i would, because this person has kids. it's not their fault their mom is a slut/whore.

my nan was horrible to my whole family for years..really bad. then her husband died and she was alone so my dad went over everyday to help her, even after all the shit she'd done. she'd call 10x a day and he'd always pick up. when she moved into a home i visited hertwice a week with my daughtertil she died. im glad now that i managed to be the bigger person, to offer her friendship when she had never ever so much as said sorry. in a way, it's like i got my own back. i dont know about everyone else but seeing someone i really disliked, even hated needing help like that...it made her seem more human, more understandable. i still didnt like her, but she was just a person like the rest of us needing help and understanding, and companionship. i think i'd feel the same way if anyone i disliked came to me for help, if they were genuine. people are people, sometimes opinions/personalities clash butthat doesnt mean compassion evaporates. and being the "bigger person" is quite satisfying lol.

This question is really tough for me, in all honesty.

There is one person in this world, yes one, that I truly have horrible feelings about. I haven't spoken to her in 6 years and I would prefer to not even think about her. However, she has two kids. So, if she was to ask me for any type of help - I would probably give in just for the kids. Yet, Idk if I would because she gets every type of govt assistance under the sun, so why would she still need stuff?

Based on our history, I just couldn't say. The main reason she and I don't talk is because she tried to pull this crap with my husband (before I knew him) by giving him a huge sob story, asking him to cash a check for her so she can feed her kids, and then when the check bounced, he ended up owing the bank $2K after all the fees. And she hasn't even said she was sorry - in 7 years. So, I can atleast say that under no circumstances would I give her any money. Whatsoever.