Forums > Suffering & Lossby: Talena_caro

Does it still count?

posted 5th Nov
At my 12 week scan my sac was empty, there was never a baby only where she should have been.

Can I still say I lost my baby when they were never there? Does it still count as a loss? A fewhave said it doesn't, I shoundnt grieve what Was never there..

I feel like I have lost a baby and my hearts broken.
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I have 3 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Dundee, United Kingdom
posted 5th Nov
I'm sorry, it's a loss, I would hate to know there wasn't baby when I thought there was..
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I'm due April 28th (a boy) & live in Wisconsin
posted 5th Nov
Yes, I would still consider it a loss. I'm so sorry ma!
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I have 1 child & live in California
posted 5th Nov
Go with whatever YOU are feeling. Don't let other people tell you how to feel. At some point an egg was fertilized, so there was something there. I'm sorry for your loss  
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I'm due May 19th, have 2 kids & live in Colorado
posted 5th Nov
Not sure if you could grieve for a lost baby but yu can grieve for what could have been. IDK though : 
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Ohio
posted 5th Nov
Technically there never was a baby, but there was to you, so I would say do what you need to do. If you feel the need to grieve, I see nothing wrong with that.

I'm sorry for your loss.
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I have 1 child & live in Hays,
posted 5th Nov
Quoting Talena_caro:“ At my 12 week scan my sac was empty, there was never a baby only where she should have been. Can I still ... [snip!] ... loss? A fewhave said it doesn't, I shoundnt grieve what Was never there.. I feel like I have lost a baby and my hearts broken.”

It is still a loss. Your baby just stopped growing. No matter what, it WOULD have grown into a baby, YOUR baby. So yes. Don't let others tell you you can't grieve, you are a mother who just lost her baby, go ahead and grieve.
I'm sorry for your loss. <3 <3
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I'm due July 27th, have 1 angel baby & live in Alamosa, Colorado
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