Hey Ladies i need some help long story short my parents hate me dating black guys but thats all im interseted sorry =) I was with someone for 2yrs he became my fiance and the father of my first child but at 12wks i had a miscarriage a month later found out he was cheating......i moved on and im with my current boyfriend Tarronn he is 29 with no kids and he wants to start a family we've been dating for 3months and know each other for over a year....well my parents stay about 1 1/2 hoursfrom me and my sisters we stay in the same hosue just move into this house but its under my parents name so like they say "its there house there rules" i say fuck them im grown shit.hehehehe. Tarronn stand one nite over and stand the day home while i was at work odd enougth my parents show up long story short they are kicking me out the house "again"(they kicked me out when i told them i was pregnant). Im not sure if i should get a house or an apartment to raise our first child? What do u girls think? and if u can tell me a lil how thing are which ever one u guys live in. Thanks so much

Only 3 months? I think you should wait.....

An apartment with at least 2 bedrooms will suffice. A child doesn't know the difference in the beginning. You could save up for a house later.

a house IMO.

Quoting Sam I am ♥:“ Only 3 months? I think you should wait.....”

well we been dating 3months been friends for over a year im TCC but still no luck my parents are kicking me out and i dont have no choice i cant get a place all on my own i need other income =(

Quoting Sam I am ♥:“ Only 3 months? I think you should wait.....”

     But your a big girl and are going to do what you want. i say an apartment is fine.

Quoting Tarronn Lady (BBM):“ well we been dating 3months been friends for over a year im TCC but still no luck my parents are kicking me out and i dont have no choice i cant get a place all on my own i need other income =(”

your bf wont move in with you?

Well......... let me tell you from someone who knew a guy for 12 years and dated him on and off and then got back into a relationship with him and after a few months thought we could move in together since we knew each other sooooooo well. DON'T. Living together is very hard especially if you're still not even past the honeymoon phase of your relationship.

That being said: House.

House if you can afford it.

Quoting h.:“ your bf wont move in with you?”

he says he wants to to help me out he is living with his sister now because he lost his house a couple of years ago so his help and company i would apericate

I'd say house.
But you guys have been only dating for about three months,I wouldn't rush into starting a family or even living together right now.
Trust me, things get really rough especially when pregnant, there will be so much that will iritate you and of course you'll iritate him.
I've been dating my fiance' about a year, a little over and we're still having some bumpy situations to deal with.
So Maybe if anything an appartment right now.

Why are you in a rush to move in with. Living with a man is very hard work and not all rainbows and sunshine everyday. I think 3 months is a very short amount of time and it could sabotage your relationship by jumping the gun.

sure you were friends, but this isn't a friendship it's a romantic relationship now and 3 months I'd never move in with someone after that. OR have a child.

That said, house is better you get bang for your buck, but an apartment is fine.

Quoting Tarronn Lady (BBM):“ he says he wants to to help me out he is living with his sister now because he lost his house a couple of years ago so his help and company i would apericate”

I say wait. So what you've been friends for a year. You've only been dating three months, and he wont move in with you? Seriously lady that says something right there.

Sorry to be so judgemental, but you've been TTC since the time you guys started dating? And this is only a couple months after you had a finance? And he doesn't want to move in with you? Are you seeing the red flags here?