re: Odd discussion on Deadbeat dads

Quoting Nik's Mama[08♥08]:“ Now, before I say pose this question, I feel I must add a disclaimer because some BG ladies look for ... [snip!] ... unconditionally regardless of the gender, that is my stand-point on it; but I am curious if others have any input on this...”

interesting.

i know a guy who's a total deadbeat w/ two daughters. i've always wondered how he would feel about them if they were boys.

i don't know, b/c i don't know what the numbers actually are, but i suspect you might be on to something.

Quoting Angelica+Alfonso=Christia:“ the professor asked the men in the class "what wouldu do with your son if u had visitation?" they shouted, ... [snip!] ... was like uhhh,, uhh,,, lol. and thats when the prof. told us about men more likely to stay with the mother if they have a son.”

Hummm... makes sense.

 
Mara! Thanks for dropping in!!

A girl I know from HS has 3 children, one girl and 2 boys, fathered by 3 different douches.

They are still douches. I would suspect it's true in general though--men are hardwired to want little boys to some extent, just like women are going to want a baby girl. I would love to have 4 or 5 boys--they're great, as long as I get my little girl at some point.

When I think of activities to do with my son, they're all about improving his skill levels with different "boyish" activities and increasing his intellect and development, much of which I consider the purview of his daddy, whereas of course I think of activities like this to do with a girl, but also the "girly" stuff would be fun to do. Men are lost when it comes to anything girly. And no, I won't be teaching my son how to bowhunt and I won't be building his treehouse.

I so didn't think I'd be a sexist parent. 

I'll be the first to admit it...... I watch Maury! How many men have you seen on there that deny it's their baby because 'they don't make girls' STUPID!!! Uh you make whatever you make cuz that's YOUR baby regardless of the gender.
SO's father tryed to go into the hospital with a shotgun when he was born because they were told he was a girl and his dad said he didn't have girls. Obviously his father didn't make it in and SO was a boy. When his dad found out he was happy as could be. Ended up leaving still. Fathered 5 different men by three different women and none of them will have anything to do with him now. The only child that talks to him? His Step DAUGHTER because she is a spoiled rotten brat. But then again not only is he a deadbeat dad he is flat out 100% crazy.

We were all thrilled when we found out we are having a girl. SO did want a boy but now he is already wrapped around her little finger and she isn't even here. He can't wait to take her to the park, teach her how to ride a bike, even have a tea party if that's what she wants to do. He isn't completly happy with the thought of having tea and crumpets lol but he will if it's what she wants   he even tells her now 'whatever you want sweetie, you can have. You just tell daddy & it's yours'   makes me giggle.

Quoting Kacie & Kylie:“ I'll be the first to admit it...... I watch Maury! How many men have you seen on there that deny it's ... [snip!] ...   he even tells her now 'whatever you want sweetie, you can have. You just tell daddy & it's yours'   makes me giggle.”

Aww so cute.

LOL, I love Maury

Noo datz izn't my babii I dontz makez quirllllz. Thatz babyz look like sponqubob squarezpantz..... hahahahah

I actually saw one one day where the guy said the little girls looked like spongebob. Then when it turned out he was the dad the mom was all like "Gee... guess that makes your ass spongedad squarepants then." LOL!!!

Quoting Nik's Mama[08♥08]:“ Aww so cute. LOL, I love Maury Noo datz izn't my babii I dontz makez quirllllz. Thatz babyz look ... [snip!] ... when it turned out he was the dad the mom was all like "Gee... guess that makes your ass spongedad squarepants then." LOL!!!”

lmfao! Men are so stupid sometimes!! I love it when they say 'well I was there when s/he was born but s/he didn't look anything like me so I knew it wasn't mine' then they show a pic from like 2 seconds after the baby popped out. Ummm duh. All the pressure from the baby being FORCED out of the birth canal that isn't exactly big enough for them kinda makes them look a little squished up and swollen. They don't look like anyone ATM they just look like a damnkid that was forced out haha
I saw one where the guy said the boy couldn't be his because he was 'too big' wth. Your son has a big penis so he can't be yours because youre tiny? Lmfao wow

Quoting Kacie & Kylie:“ lmfao! Men are so stupid sometimes!! I love it when they say 'well I was there when s/he was born but ... [snip!] ... boy couldn't be his because he was 'too big' wth. Your son has a big penis so he can't be yours because youre tiny? Lmfao wow”

Hahahahaha that almost made me pee myself laughing. I think I did see that one though a long time ago. The craziest one I ever saw was where this guy was like a dark, dark, dark skinned black guy and thewoman he was withwas a blond haired, blue eyed white lady. The baby girl was sooooo caucasian and the guy was convinced she was a white guys's kid. (The baby also had light hair and eyes and caucaisian hair texture.) When Maury read the results that it was his kid I thought for sure there must've been some error, but then again I don't know anything about genetics, I guess the baby just got like 99% of the mom's genes, from what it looked like.

Quoting Nik's Mama[08♥08]:“ Hahahahaha that almost made me pee myself laughing. I think I did see that one though a long time ago. ... [snip!] ... again I don't know anything about genetics, I guess the baby just got like 99% of the mom's genes, from what it looked like.”

  that's what I thought too. Damn way to out yourself on national tv. Now no woman is going to want to sleep with you! They are gona be like hey wait a min aren't you that guy with the tiny penis that denied your son on Maury?! Lol
haha I love that. If the baby had come out dark as hell could she have denied it? 'oops fuck that she is dark I know she came out of me and all but not my kid'

Quoting Kacie & Kylie:“   that's what I thought too. Damn way to out yourself on national tv. Now no woman is going to want ... [snip!] ... come out dark as hell could she have denied it? 'oops fuck that she is dark I know she came out of me and all but not my kid'”

LMAO. You make a good point on both accounts. Wow, that's hilarious.

Quoting Kacie & Kylie:“ I'll be the first to admit it...... I watch Maury! How many men have you seen on there that deny it's ... [snip!] ...   he even tells her now 'whatever you want sweetie, you can have. You just tell daddy & it's yours'   makes me giggle.”

thats just awesome.

Quoting Kacie & Kylie:“ lmfao! Men are so stupid sometimes!! I love it when they say 'well I was there when s/he was born but ... [snip!] ... boy couldn't be his because he was 'too big' wth. Your son has a big penis so he can't be yours because youre tiny? Lmfao wow”

omg thats just freaking hillarious! what would we do without maury?