jealousy

ok so ive bben pregnant the past 2 yrs i was tiny before pregnancy. i was 118 pds. got up to 200 pounds at birth with son but i refused to allow myself to remain big after giving birth so i worked my ass off and I wasnt one of the woman that it just fell off man i had fat in places i never had fat in before. i am 5 mth pp and have lost 60 pounds and im still losing. my sil has been tiny her entire life too. shes only 4'11 tho so 120 on her might make her look a lil chubby i guess. Well her daughter is 14 mth now im guessin shes about 115-120

but she hasnt worked out and eats very unhealthy so she still has the extra body fat on her but anyhow we both live in ky and will be going to nyc to visit family. my so family. and some of them havnt seen me without being pregnant so they dont know my progress well anyhow everytime my so speaks to his sis she always ask am i skinnier. shes like oh man shes gonna be skinnier then me. shes in competition with me and its sad b/c she should be happy for me. she was ok when i was fat and pregnant but as soon as i dropped the pds she started actin wierd. I have 2 kids 14 mth apart a 5 mth and 20 mth old and im gettin in shape for them and b/c im a fashionable person i love clothes and i wanna loo good in my clothes and for my health. I just hate ppl cant be happy for other ppl.


so ladies it only motivates me to workout even harder b/c im not lazy and i worked hard to geta decent body. im hoping to lose 20 pds by xmas to put me at 120. im about to go do taebo in 10 mins lol.

who cares! it's her fault! she's the only one making her self unhappy. and good job! i hope you get to your goal

Quoting slutmuffin♥:“ who cares! it's her fault! she's the only one making her self unhappy. and good job! i hope you get to your goal”

awwwwwwe thankyou your lol is sooooo cute too.

I'm lost... Shes skinner than you and shes mad that you lost weight? Anyways, I think it's stupid. She shouldn't be trying to compete with you. Goodluck with your goal. I want to loose 20lbs by next month also. I highly doubt I'll get there though.

Quoting Bear's Mommy. ♀:“ I'm lost... Shes skinner than you and shes mad that you lost weight? Anyways, I think it's stupid. She ... [snip!] ... to compete with you. Goodluck with your goal. I want to loose 20lbs by next month also. I highly doubt I'll get there though.”

shes smaller then me by at least 20-25 pds but she had flat abs no love handles small thighs, skinny neck and slim arms and now she may be small but her neck is alot thicker, she dosent have in shape arms anymore a lil flabby, she has a belly, and love handles so shes really self concious but all she has to do is workout and eat healthier. she just needs to tone up and lose a lil body fat im like if u arent willin to do the work owell stay the way ur. truth is shes scared that the fact that i work so hard ill get skinnier which i kno i will lol b/c im determined and i ws small before hand. but shes so lucky to be small still she takes it for granted,

Quoting carmenisa:“ ok so ive bben pregnant the past 2 yrs i was tiny before pregnancy. i was 118 pds. got up to 200 pounds ... [snip!] ... i worked hard to geta decent body. im hoping to lose 20 pds by xmas to put me at 120. im about to go do taebo in 10 mins lol.”

Congratulations on you progress.

She may not just be jealous it may be more of a, now she feels she has to start eating better and working out.
She should be happy for you but competition among woman for these types of things is typical.

Quoting mforman:“ Congratulations on you progress. She may not just be jealous it may be more of a, now she feels ... [snip!] ... eating better and working out. She should be happy for you but competition among woman for these types of things is typical.”

its not that she wants to b healthy. she said she would die if she had to eat diet food n hates woring out. shes just used to me being the bigger one after i had my 2 ids and i now im not aand she sees im losing weight n continuing to lose weight so now shes scared ill be smaller. i have a goal and i eat well and workout 6-7 days so yeah i no im going to be small but i wanna be healthy im not just worin out to be skinny lol. some woman dont understand the diff between skinny and healthy. im bigger then her and i can work out for hrs she cant wor out for 10 mins lol shes just really lazy.