Me and my husband

I have been having issues with my husband lately. It is like we cannot get a long. I feel like he ignores me so much, and then he doesn't pay any attention to the baby any more. I had a brief though to cheat on my husband, and I felt so bad for it, that I literally told him, and then he freaked out. I felt like I needed to be honest where I was at, and since then we have been getting along better. I was wondering if anyone had any advice for me?

Quoting Trena Frazier:“ I have been having issues with my husband lately. It is like we cannot get a long. I feel like he ignores ... [snip!] ... to be honest where I was at, and since then we have been getting along better. I was wondering if anyone had any advice for me?”

next time, dont tell him if you didnt actually do anything wrong  

Quoting Addisons Momma!:“ next time, dont tell him if you didnt actually do anything wrong  ”

I don't know why, but I still felt like I did.

Quoting Trena Frazier:“ I don't know why, but I still felt like I did.”

i know... and plenty of people will disagree with me... but if you didnt do anything wrong really, then the guilt you have is your burden to bear and deal with. if you did cheat on him, then of coure you should be honest, but now, you havent done anything wrong, and freaked him out.

above and beyond that? try comign home like nothing is wrong, and just love him without worries or what ifs... he loved the way you loved him, so get back to doing it that way, and you guys will hopefully be able to move on!

Quoting Trena Frazier:“ I have been having issues with my husband lately. It is like we cannot get a long. I feel like he ignores ... [snip!] ... to be honest where I was at, and since then we have been getting along better. I was wondering if anyone had any advice for me?”

me and my dh were like this awhile back..like at the beginning of our marriage..for us it was justcommunication issues,i would talk,we'd argue,id close up even more,hed stomp upstairs and such..just try communicating with him and letting him now you feel ignored and such..helped with me and my dh.

Quoting Addisons Momma!:“ i know... and plenty of people will disagree with me... but if you didnt do anything wrong really, then ... [snip!] ... what ifs... he loved the way you loved him, so get back to doing it that way, and you guys will hopefully be able to move on!”

The problem is it is hard to get along with each other, he always wants to work, there is not much time for me, and if i tell him i feel like crap, he doesn't care... He thinks spending time with me is watching a movie, but i do not feel connected to him at all.. The last couple nights he has done better, but then it gets worse. I feel like he does things to bug me and doesn't care he is doing em... I am just going crazy

Quoting ericka0516:“ me and my dh were like this awhile back..like at the beginning of our marriage..for us it was justcommunication ... [snip!] ... upstairs and such..just try communicating with him and letting him now you feel ignored and such..helped with me and my dh.”

We have been married two months now... And I tried that. I have tried a lot of stuff. When I try talking to him, he is like "I dont think married people fight everyday like us" and makes me feel bad for bringing it up and goes and the same thing happens. Like he gets mad at me cause I dont clean the house when he goes to work (cause I dont work) I have been on bed rest for the last month and a half and it makes me sick. I don't know what to do.

have yall tried maybe going to counseling?

wait..i just read that your on bedrest..hmmm...

Quoting ericka0516:“ have yall tried maybe going to counseling? wait..i just read that your on bedrest..hmmm...”

Lol we cannot afford it or we would.