He being an ass Vent

I love my husband I really do but many people dont. Hes a very selfish man. Hes 420 and I am not. So I dont get the need for it. Hes been out of pot for 2 entire days now and you would think hes going to die. Hes been such an ass. On top of it all, hes called out sick to work the past 2 days when we are so broke. Hes not sick, hes just sober andI dont think hes use to it. I didnt know that he was this much of an addict when we got married. I dont know that I can put up with this forever. He's willing to spend are very last dollar on his problem. Rather than buying our baby diapers or formula, or food for the house. We even had our power turned offlast week. However he had his pot. Really are you kidding me it means so much more to you than us. What to do

Quoting I Love Corbin:“ I love my husband I really do but many people dont. Hes a very selfish man. Hes 420 and I am not. So ... [snip!] ... power turned offlast week. However he had his pot. Really are you kidding me it means so much more to you than us. What to do”

What does he do for work that he has to do it high?

I don't know if I could deal with that. Sounds like he is addicted.

Quoting M e g a n♥KDV[PTM]:“ What does he do for work that he has to do it high?”

Hes a security officer he just has to be high to operate as normal people do

Quoting I Love Corbin:“ Hes a security officer he just has to be high to operate as normal people do”

And, they don't piss test him randomly?

get your LO and a few things and go stay with your mum or someone and really have a think about whether you want your baby to grow up in that environment?

Quoting M e g a n♥KDV[PTM]:“ And, they don't piss test him randomly?”

nope just to start and he bought the fake pee stuff

Quoting I Love Corbin:“ nope just to start and he bought the fake pee stuff”

Wow, he sounds like a loser. That would suck if they decide to do random piss tests, and he loses his job.

I wouldnt be able to handle that shit! I'd leave! (at least until he gets his act together)

Quoting I Love Corbin:“ I love my husband I really do but many people dont. Hes a very selfish man. Hes 420 and I am not. So ... [snip!] ... power turned offlast week. However he had his pot. Really are you kidding me it means so much more to you than us. What to do”

Wow what a dickhead... I think you and your son would be better off without him...

Quoting madii:“ get your LO and a few things and go stay with your mum or someone and really have a think about whether you want your baby to grow up in that environment?”

The thing is I know he'll never change. The question now is Im I going to change. Hes a good dad and I love him we're just complete opposites. Im happy,good with money and like doing things. Hes into pot xbox and staying at home. The more I read what i write make me shake my head in shame. I know i would tell a friend in this situation to leave him

I don't think there's anything wrong with smoking pot once in a while to "let loose" or whatever but when you're putting it on top of your list above everything and everyone else, there's a serious problem. sounds like an addict and I agree with the other gal.... take a few days away from him and stay with someone. make him think about what he's doing to your family and give yourself time to think too..... it doesn't always fix things but it's a start I guess? good luck

Quoting I Love Corbin:“ I love my husband I really do but many people dont. Hes a very selfish man. Hes 420 and I am not. So ... [snip!] ... power turned offlast week. However he had his pot. Really are you kidding me it means so much more to you than us. What to do”

my dad was like that..he would call in sick if he couldn't get a hold of some pot and when he would go to work he would use 20 dollars a DAY..he worked 5 days a week...and he always took the same amount of money even if it were from me or my mom or my baby sister...he would take the money..me and my mom would have to hide money so we could buy food and toilet paper and necessities like that...he even stole from our coin collection me and my sister had going to save for Disneyland(keep it in mind that I was 12-17 from when he was living with us) my mom finally had it after 22 years of being with him and him lying and cheating an stealing and using pot...people think it's an okay drug to use and that "you can't get addicted" but it's possible and honestly if he's not going to quit the best thing you could do for you and your child is leave him....me and my mom actually can afford things now we always have money some how and our house always has food and power not like before...it's something you should really consider before your life gets so sucked into his pot addiction that you grow to hate him..

Wow, your baby does not need that kind of an environment - how much does your baby inhale??? Pack up and go stay at a shelter - they will set you up with housing and funding.................you do not have to stay - nor tell him your plans. Do you have a vehicle you can use? Or call the police for them to come pick you up - they do that no questions asked when women call them!!

Quoting I Love Corbin:“ The thing is I know he'll never change. The question now is Im I going to change. Hes a good dad and ... [snip!] ... home. The more I read what i write make me shake my head in shame. I know i would tell a friend in this situation to leave him”

oh god..... I think you just made me have an ah-ha moment about my boyfriend. right when you said pot and xbox.... holy crap.