Your Sexual Past - Honesty.

Ok ladies let's be honest.

-How many sexual partners have you had?
-Have you and your partner discussed both of your numbers?
-Were you completely honest about yours?
-Do you feel ashamed of your number.

This is something that me and my friends and finace were talking about the other day. I had my wild past and a number that is higher than most of my friends. Me and my fiance are pretty much even though. I'm not ashamed to tell mine, because i see sexuality as something that should be celebrated (safely). Some of my friends would not even say their real numbers though.

I'll answer as well to get us started.

-I've been with 38 men (i honestly can't count the women, but it's probley just as high)
-Yes, we have both talked about it, and we are both comfortable with them.
-Absolutely, although i feel that my fiance having a wild past as well, made me feel as if he wouldn't judge me so i felt comfortable telling him the truth.
-No i'm not ashamed, i enjoyed my wilder days and it was all a great learning experience in what i did and did not want in a partner. lol.

I lost my virginity to an ex and that was the first and last time until I met my DH so in total 2

ETA:and yes i've talked to the dh about it but he won't tell me anything he says a gentleman dosen't have a memory 

I have had sex only with my hubby and its been great

-How many sexual partners have you had?four
-Have you and your partner discussed both of your numbers?yes
-Were you completely honest about yours?yes
-Do you feel ashamed of your number.yes because my husband was a virgin before me..

Quoting MandyLoo:“ Ok ladies let's be honest. -How many sexual partners have you had? -Have you and your partner discussed ... [snip!] ... ashamed, i enjoyed my wilder days and it was all a great learning experience in what i did and did not want in a partner. lol.”

I'm bout to leave the house...but i'll be back to discuss :]
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I've been with 4 guys including my husband.

Yes, we talked about it very early in the relationship and we were both open and honest about it.

And not really.

5.

Don't know my husband's exact number, I know its higher than mine and I'm okay with it.

-How many sexual partners have you had? Five
-Have you and your partner discussed both of your numbers? yes
-Were you completely honest about yours?yes
-Do you feel ashamed of your number. yes - 2 were one night stands and makes me feel icky.

wow! I'm a whore, lol.. My husband was number 15! and I was like.. 30 or 40 for him.. I know.. ew.. but yeah, we discussed it as soon as we started to get serious

7 including my DH... I was honest with him. I couldn't live with myself if I lied! DH's number is lower than mine, but I'm not ashamed at all!

sexual partners as in... like a relationship?

cos idk I've been w/ at least 10 guys.

blah, idc... lol

I've only had sex with 3 people, including my fiance. Yes we've talked about it. No I don't feel ashamed.

-How many sexual partners have you had? 28 Men
-Have you and your partner discussed both of your numbers? My husbandand I have talked aboutit but it isn't a daily subject.
-Were you completely honest about yours? I was completely honest with him and he was honest with me.
-Do you feel ashamed of your number. I'm not ashamed, I wish I hadwaited and held out more than what I did.

-How many sexual partners have you had? 1
-Have you and your partner discussed both of your numbers? Yes
-Were you completely honest about yours? Yes
-Do you feel ashamed of your number? Not at all.

I've been with 2 guys, one is my husband. No women. Yet.

He's been with around 10 women. No men.

We've discussed numbers, but they weren't a big deal to either of us. I was completely honest, I can only hope he was. I'm not ashamed of my number, if anything, I've sort of wished it was bigger.