A friend of mine is TTC with her BF, and they are thinking of getting married next month.

A few days ago, she told me she's having an affair. I haven't said anything yet, because I'm not sure what I should really do, because she is a fan of drama, and I'm not sure if she's telling the truth, and she claims it hasn't been physical.. yet.

I'm not friends with her BF, and actually don't like him (we've known eachother a long time) but it's not fair to him still.. What would you do?

Stay out of it. He will figure it out on his own.

you dont need drama......

Quoting Baby B's momma:“ Stay out of it. He will figure it out on his own.”

That's what I would do usually, but then they're thinking of getting married, and they're trying to get pregnant. I would feel horrible if he found out AFTER, and I knew it all along.

Shes TTC.. yet sleeping with someone else.. uh ohhh. Thats not a good combo!

Quoting *Heather* 25 weeks:“ Shes TTC.. yet sleeping with someone else.. uh ohhh. Thats not a good combo!”

She's claiming it's not physical, but she did throw in a "yet".

And, you're due the same day I was this year with my son!

I'd tell him, even if she claims it hasn't gotten physical yet, it could. If they're TTC she could get pregnant and it not be his... so not fair to him.

I would tell him   only because if I were being cheated on, I would want to know.

Wouldnt you?

Quoting Zigeunerleben:“ I'd tell him, even if she claims it hasn't gotten physical yet, it could. If they're TTC she could get pregnant and it not be his... so not fair to him.”

    

Quoting bia.:“ I would tell him   only because if I were being cheated on, I would want to know. Wouldnt you?”

I would. My DH told me that it'll make everything worse on me, because we share a lot of mutual friends.

Quoting bia.:“ I would tell him   only because if I were being cheated on, I would want to know. Wouldnt you?”

I think the right thing to do is stay out of it, but half the time I don't do the right thing

Quoting bia.:“ I would tell him   only because if I were being cheated on, I would want to know. Wouldnt you?”

Exactly!

So many people knew when my husband was cheating on me... and none of them told me. It fucking sucks to be the last to know.

Quoting Zigeunerleben:“ Exactly! So many people knew when my husband was cheating on me... and none of them told me. It fucking sucks to be the last to know.”

Mmmm, a friend of mine was cheated on, my best friend knew all along and didnt tell her, she had to find out on her own, now this friend HATES my best friend, because she knew and didnt speak up, and to make it worse my friend was pregnant with his kid,  

Honestly, I would just stay out of it. Or send her something anonymously.

Quoting bia.:“ Mmmm, a friend of mine was cheated on, my best friend knew all along and didnt tell her, she had to ... [snip!] ... friend HATES my best friend, because she knew and didnt speak up, and to make it worse my friend was pregnant with his kid,  ”

I was pregnant with my son when he was cheating on me...he got 2 other women pregnant while I was pregnant.