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my name is Shauntrell and I am mother of 4. I've been having some issues trying to find my childrens father. I know for a fact that they call him Cletus but I don't know his goverment name. His mom want give me any of his info b/c she's affraid Im going to place him on CS for all four which I plan to. Cletus has two other BM's who have been harrassing me since I had my first child 6 years ago. I have tryed to befriend these women in order to get some info on Cletus but they two or working against me.I love Cletus and I just wanna be a family, he told me we would get married on day but that dream soon faded away when he left 5 months ago. It's as if he disapeared of the face of the earth. All I want is for him to help out with the kids. Does anybody have some advice on how I would go about finding him? please don't judge me I'm just a victim of love that's all. Do ya'll think if I told his wife about our kids would she help?
** Oh Im sorry guys I left out the fact that he's married to his wife of 7 years but he's in and out of her life also.

Why are you fucking with a married man anways?

Quoting kristenxxdanielle:“ Why are you fucking with a married man anways?”

Dont be so quick to judge. Did you read her post? She isn't fucking with him. She is trying to find him to pay child support. He is the FATHER of her children.

Wait, do you already have 4 kids or are you adding the twins your expecting in that too?

You have 4 children with this man and you don't know his real name?  

Yes contact his wife!!!

do you happen to know anyone in the Bahamas?

Quoting Shauntrell + 4:“ Hi my name is Shauntrell and I am mother of 4. I've been having some issues trying to find my childrens ... [snip!] ... help? ** Oh Im sorry guys I left out the fact that he's married to his wife of 7 years but he's in and out of her life also.”

God on JERRY SPRINGER!!! Maybe he can find your baby daddy  

Quoting ma ♥:“ Dont be so quick to judge. Did you read her post? She isn't fucking with him. She is trying to find him to pay child support. He is the FATHER of her children.”

But she had to fuck with him to get those children of hers.

OP- continue searching if you think you'll find him. Myself, I would give up. & No I dont think telling his wife will help. Personally, I dont see how you can be in love with a man like this.

how could you have never figured out his name... I'm confused

Quoting Shauntrell + 4:“ Hi my name is Shauntrell and I am mother of 4. I've been having some issues trying to find my childrens ... [snip!] ... help? ** Oh Im sorry guys I left out the fact that he's married to his wife of 7 years but he's in and out of her life also.”

 
Wait, Are you pregnant with his children or do you already have his children?
I'm so confused
 

Quoting vegas ♥ mommy:“ You have 4 children with this man and you don't know his real name?  ”

yea I know right

Quoting Baby Factory 2000:“ do you happen to know anyone in the Bahamas?”

LMFAO

well I think your a homewrecker and you should get no help