re: FERTILITY FRIEND

Quoting George's mommy ! ♥:“ your 19 lol whats the difference?”

Lol Thers not much difference but I didnt go around and TRY to get pregnant I was on BC and It failed

okay check it out i am a young mom yes but y should it matter to u girls its not ur life its mine and i have a reason y i want kids now... i have cysts on my ovaries that keep coming back and already had thenm removed once and chances that i willneed surgery again are high and in that case after my 2ed surgery if i get them again and need surgery i will need my ovaries removed so sorry that i might lose my reprductive organs and would love to have my own chidren..so keep running ur mouths and one day when u or ur kids find out they might not be able to have children i hope people treat u the same way you treat me

Quoting AyDoN's MoMmY:“ Lol Thers not much difference but I didnt go around and TRY to get pregnant I was on BC and It failed”

yeah i get that, i had my son at 16, and was in the same boat, BC failed. I do not agree with teens TTC either.

Quoting packersgirl30:“ Yeah.. Cause I am such a cow   Listen sweetie, I can PROMISE you I have more going for me ... [snip!] ... housethatyou do (and my name is on the title, not my Mommy's), a college education... So go blow it out your ass little girl”

yah thanks i think i might lissten to u and do that haa

Quoting Proud Mommy Of 1 .life is:“ okay check it out i am a young mom yes but y should it matter to u girls its not ur life its mine and ... [snip!] ... and one day when u or ur kids find out they might not be able to have children i hope people treat u the same way you treat me”

I had cysts as well. At 20, I had one that ruptured and the fallopian tube was so damaged, they removed it. I still was able to have a child.

Nobody wants to be mean for the sake of being mean. But we think of the child, and their quality of life. Don't you think it would be better to have a child born when you are more stable??

Quoting George's mommy ! ♥:“ yeah i get that, i had my son at 16, and was in the same boat, BC failed. I do not agree with teens TTC either.”

Lol I guess that I know I have a hard time making ends meet at 19 with one child, I dont know how the hell some of these teens this they can make ends meet with 2 and 3 kids they must be rich or something haha

oh yah my bc faileed too when i became pregnant with my son but now i might need my ovaries removed so yes i am going to try to have children and my ovaries might be damaged already from the surgery considering i had a miscaraigethe begiining of this year after the surgery...

Quoting Proud Mommy Of 1 .life is:“ okay check it out i am a young mom yes but y should it matter to u girls its not ur life its mine and ... [snip!] ... and one day when u or ur kids find out they might not be able to have children i hope people treat u the same way you treat me”

the way i look at it, you are an adult, you are 18 years old, and if you can financially support both children, why not?

Quoting AyDoN's MoMmY:“ Lol I guess that I know I have a hard time making ends meet at 19 with one child, I dont know how the ... [snip!] ... I dont know how the hell some of these teens this they can make ends meet with 2 and 3 kids they must be rich or something haha”

yeah, we are struggling a lot at the moment, im a full time college student and cant find a job anywhere, my fiance works and we can pay the bills, but we have had to cut things like our cell phones, cable and things like that, its hard, and i couldn't imagine doing it with more than 1 child..

Quoting packersgirl30:“ I had cysts as well. At 20, I had one that ruptured and the fallopian tube was so damaged, they removed ... [snip!] ... of the child, and their quality of life. Don't you think it would be better to have a child born when you are more stable??”

i understand that but y do u think it is so imposable for me to be stable.? i had an effed up life and i grew up ttoooo fast but i love what my life has become i am very stable live alone with my family work i am doing cosmitology and i give my son a very good life he goes to every dr appt has all his shots hes not slow i didnt drink or smoke while pregnant nore do i do eaither now so y is it so out of the quesrtions that i am not a great parent like u women...my mom is 36 and a shity mom she gets drunk every night with my 4 yr old sister there and i am a teenager and a way better parent i know most teen parents suck and shouldnt be trying to have chiltren when they cant take care of the first one the hadi agree there but i am not one of them cant anyone understand that..?

Quoting packersgirl30:“ I had cysts as well. At 20, I had one that ruptured and the fallopian tube was so damaged, they removed ... [snip!] ... of the child, and their quality of life. Don't you think it would be better to have a child born when you are more stable??”

i understand that but y do u think it is so imposable for me to be stable.? i had an effed up life and i grew up ttoooo fast but i love what my life has become i am very stable live alone with my family work i am doing cosmitology and i give my son a very good life he goes to every dr appt has all his shots hes not slow i didnt drink or smoke while pregnant nore do i do eaither now so y is it so out of the quesrtions that i am not a great parent like u women...my mom is 36 and a shity mom she gets drunk every night with my 4 yr old sister there and i am a teenager and a way better parent i know most teen parents suck and shouldnt be trying to have chiltren when they cant take care of the first one the hadi agree there but i am not one of them cant anyone understand that..?

Quoting Proud Mommy Of 1 .life is:“ oh yah my bc faileed too when i became pregnant with my son but now i might need my ovaries removed so ... [snip!] ... ovaries might be damaged already from the surgery considering i had a miscaraigethe begiining of this year after the surgery...”

Im sorry you're going through this. If you could handle more kids, then why not? Have all you want while you still can but Im still confused...how old are you? (Not trying to cause drama just want to have it clear)

I have no idea about Fertility Friend so I'm not much help but I don't see why you should try to explain yourself to others. Just ignore them and do what you feel is best. Although I do not agree with being almost 17 and wanting another child but I'm not going to put you down.