How do you know?

If you are with the person you are suppose to be with? Is it right to sell yourself short of happiness, for comfort? Should you live with the person you can live with or can't live without?

Quoting Gabby311:“ If you are with the person you are suppose to be with? Is it right to sell yourself short of happiness, for comfort? Should you live with the person you can live with or can't live without?”

very good point.

I would personally love to know this answer myself.

Do you stay with the person you love or go for the person you are in love with? I'm not talking about new found love. Because that always feels good.

I recently have been asking myself this very question.

PSH, the world will never know! lmao...i dont think u should settle, i dont think anyone should, i think if ur not happy with something or someone u should work as hard as u can to get to that point and if it cant happen then maybe its time to move on...I KNOW! easier said then done...

You should always be happy...if you settle others will know, including the ones you love. The one you cant live without.

  tell me when you find out please

Such a hard call...

I hate this part of being a woman, because we analyze EVERYTHING  

You should never just "settle" for something.

You should always be happy. & Have what you absolutely can not live without.

IMO you should never stay with someone just because your comfortable, you need to also be happy. Before I met my husband I was in a 3 year relationship with someone who I was with mainly because he was "a good guy". My whole family loved him, and i did too but I cryed myself to sleep every night because I feltso unloved. Then I met my husband and I didnt want to leave my boyfriend for him because I knew the reaction from my family would be harsh, but I followed my heart and went for it. Know I am happier than I have ever been. I never knew love was this good. The family eventually told me how proud they were for following my heart. They now love my husband very much because he make me so happy.Good Luck!

I was about to marry someone because I was comfortable and then I met my now husband and coulden't be happier!! Sure we have our bad moments but I am way happier then I ever thought was possible!! So no I woulden't stay with someone because it was comfortable!

Quoting Gabby311:“ Do you stay with the person you love or go for the person you are in love with? I'm not talking about new found love. Because that always feels good.”

i always think about my ex that i loved and i think about my husband who i love ... i think my husband was better for me and i know he truly makes me happy and i love him more than anything.

Quoting JBS est. 7.17.07 ♋:“ Such a hard call... I hate this part of being a woman, because we analyze EVERYTHING  ”

sooo effin true!!