hospital nurses!

When I was in labor with my daughter they tried to force me to get the epi and "be quiet" last night my friend went to the hospital because she was having painful contractions. They checked her and said she was dialated at 1cm and told her to go home and to come back when her water breaks or she needs the epi. Grrr the nurses here piss me off. They scared my other friend into having the epi, which didnt work... Grr I wish there was another hospital here.